【続編】男女脳で異なるやる気を引き出す褒め方-How to praise men and women to motivate them differently-
皆さんこんばんわ。今回は前回ご紹介した”やる気を引き出す褒め方”の続編についてマネジメントの方法を『男女脳戦略』より一部抜粋してご紹介いたします。ちなみに前回の記事では男女脳の違いによって褒められたいポイントが異なるとの事でした。よければそちらの記事も併せてご覧ください。
Everyone, good evening. This time, I would like to introduce some management methods from ``Men and Women's Brain Strategy'', which is a sequel to ``How to praise people to motivate them'' that I introduced last time. By the way, in the previous article, we talked about how men and women want to be praised differently depending on the differences in their brains. If you like, please take a look at those articles as well.
”男女脳の違いによる褒め方のヒント。それは、「○○が君の事を褒めていた」という第三者の評価です。人には人づてに聞いたことのほうが信じやすいという心理傾向があります。褒めるときに上司であるあなた「＋ａ」の人物を登場させる事で、部下はより強く褒められた感や認められた感を持ち自信も倍増します。そこで覚えておきたいのが、ここでも男性脳と女性脳では誰に褒められると嬉しいかが違うという事。”
"Tips on how to compliment based on differences in male and female brains. It is a third party's evaluation that says, "○○ praised you." People have a psychological tendency to believe things they hear from others. By including your boss (+a) when praising your subordinates, your subordinates will feel more strongly praised and recognized, and their confidence will double. What you should keep in mind here is that male and female brains are different in terms of who makes them happy when they receive compliments."
”上司や先輩、後輩など立場やキャリアの違う人から褒められると「よっしゃ」となるのが男性脳。一方の女性脳の場合は同年代の同僚や身近な仲間から褒められると心が満たされます。これは女性脳特有の自分が共感を持てる相手から認められたいという心理です。ただ褒めるのではなく、相手の心により響くように褒める。それは部下の脳と心を掌握することでもあるのです。”
"It is the male brain that responds, "Okay," when someone from a different position or career background, such as a boss, senior, or junior, praises you. On the other hand, female brains feel satisfied when they are praised by colleagues of the same age or close friends. This is a psychology unique to women's brains, where they want to be recognized by someone they can empathize with. Don't just praise, give praise in a way that resonates with the other person's heart. It's also about controlling the brains and hearts of your subordinates."
皆さんいかがだったでしょうか。男性脳と女性脳では誰から褒められるかによって嬉しいポイントが異なるようですね。プライドを満たされたい男性脳と共感を持てる相手から認められたい女性脳。相手を褒めるときにはぜひ参考にしてみてください。きっと褒められて嫌だという人はいないはずですw。今回の記事が何か参考になれば幸いです。それではまた。ありがとうございました。
What did you all think? It seems that male and female brains have different points of happiness depending on who compliments them. The male brain wants to satisfy their pride, and the female brain wants to be recognized by someone they can empathize with. Please use this as a reference when complimenting others. I'm sure there is no one who doesn't like being praised lol. I hope this article is of some use to you. See you soon. thank you very much.
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参考文献：『男女脳戦略』
著者：DaiGo
出版：ダイアモンド社
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