Stay loving myself

I usually avoid complaining about someone coz if I say something bad behind their back, I end up regretting it and hating myself. But… today, I want to share an opinion, not a compliant. I sometimes wonder, when someone says they feel inferior to others in terms of skills, appearance, or whatever, and just gets devastated like ‘I’m the worst in the world’, while they don’t even try to change themselves. It may sound harsh, but I ask them ’Are you simply satisfied with your current situation, being lazy, eating snacks on a couch while playing video games?’ Yet they beg for sympathy and want to hear compliments like ‘I know you’re doing great.’ Why? They don’t deserve to feel hatred for themselves. If they feel content with what they're doing, that’s completely fine, isn’t it? Just enjoy gaming nights, eating fatty food, drinking alcohol, working lazily, if that's what they want.

It takes time to feel or see some changes in yourself. I rarely drink alcohol coz I hate how puffy and ugly my face looks afterward. I don't play video games coz I feel it's a waste of time. I eat fast food less often coz being in good shape makes me feel comfortable. At least, I make an effort to love myself. I believe these small steps make a difference, built confidence.

Have a lovely day.