240518 お互い様の反面教師

確認が遅れて
振り回されるのは
だいたい
確認をキチンと行った層

総てが終わってガックリと
チカラが抜ける様な
虚無感が去来シたのです

心の準備がデキていたのは
幸か不幸か心境的には然程
苦痛も大きく無かったけど

本当にコノまま
付き合い続けてイイのだろうか

そう想ったりもスるんです

が

大体こう謂うときは
自分の事を棚上げシて
もの申して居る
そんなケースが多々アるので

他山の石とシて
更に己を磨いてイきたい
そう強く願うのです

自分がそう想った時は
得てして相手も斯様に
想って居るのではナいか

そうフィードバックを
己に返して

その結果とシて
ダメならお別れも
やっと視野に入るのではナいか

そう考えるのです

我以外皆我師
とは何処ぞの方の言葉ですが

反面教師もまた師なり
そう考えるに至れば
他山の石も一層
その輝きを帯びて見えるのです
(^-^)v

240518 Mutual Opposites Sided

Delayed confirmation.
I'm usually the one who gets pushed around.
It's usually the people who have done the checks properly

When everything is done, I'm discouraged
I felt a sense of emptiness, as if my energy had been drained away.

I was ready for it.
Fortunately or unfortunately
the pain was not so great, but

I wondered if I really wanted to continue our relationship.

I sometimes wonder about that.

But

Whenever I say something like this
I'm putting myself on the back burner
I'm talking about myself.
In many cases

I would like to improve myself even more
That's what I strongly hope for.

When you think like that, the other person is probably thinking like that too.

I want to give feedback
back to you

And as a result
If it doesn't work out, you can finally consider saying goodbye.

That's what I think

Everyone is my teacher except me
As someone once said...

A role model is also a teacher
If we come to think of it that way
I see the stones of other mountains
the stones of other mountains will seem to shine even brighter.
(^-^)v

by DeepL