The importance of emotional honesty in relationships. - Dec. 21, 2023.

Yesterday, I unexpectedly started crying while talking on the phone with my partner. This was because she addressed my worries and we thought of solutions together. Honestly, I'm not good at expressing my feelings, especially in tough times. I often think showing my concerns might bother her when she's also facing challenges. So, I usually try to handle my insecurities alone. But she supported me and we tackled the problems together. I've learned that it's important to share real feelings with our partners, even if they are worries or weaknesses, to keep our relationship strong.

This morning, in my English conversation class, we talked about the importance of openly expressing our feelings to our partners, family, and friends. We agreed that sharing honest thoughts can be refreshing and clarify our minds. We also discussed that having heart-to-heart conversations is key to maintaining good relationships with loved ones. It's often said that Japanese men tend to keep their true feelings to themselves. I believe that relying on others can be as valuable as dealing with things on our own.