find your uniqueness and niche, and being who you are is the way to be the best of all.

when I was a little kid, I was attending an acting school that my mom put me in… because I wanted to be some sort of entertainer.
but I didn't enjoy going to school, didnt like the vibes, people were mean, and not nice, and everyone hated each other like everyone was trying to kick each other out of their positions…. to get more opportunities for themselves.
if there is anyone better than anyone, then they hate that person….
I mean I get it, that person gets more opportunities than you do. and you are jelly about it… I got it and didnt like it, and I have never been liking it.
so I only lasted a year there, it was too toxic for me as a little kid.

I grew up, got old, and been working in the entertainment industry…. woohoo, but I still feel the same i don't like the vibe and people who always try to be better than anyone and hate other people's success.

because I strongly believe that there are spotlights for everyone.
 but to get to the spotlight, your spotlight,
you need to find your uniqueness and niche. Be who you are.
 AND MAXIMIZE IT.

what I mean by that is if you try to steal someone else's spotlight, and be better in the wrong spotlight, you won't shine as much + it's so hard to get to the spotlight than getting your spotlight, because you are fighting in the wrong field with wrong skill sets…..
but if you maximize your uniqueness and be who you are, it'll automatically take you to your own spotlight and you shine better there.
as soon as you start finding your uniqueness or focusing on it, you will start attracting better opportunities, better jobs, and more happiness and stability.

it is so competitive these days… and it gets you to think that you need to be better than anyone else to get more opportunities or to be happier but that's not true.
Seriously, as soon as you get out of that toxic mindset and world, you will realize you didnt need to fight or cry for it.
you already have what you need to be the best, and I'm not gonna lie, it could be a long journey to find it, but as soon as you get on that journey, you will start seeing the differences in your life.
and for some people, it could be a chance to choose a different path in your life or have some eye-opening experiences.

and another thing, being the best of all, like in everyone's spotlights.
that is impossible, only the got could do it. it's beyond human skill.

for example, the baseball player Shohei Otani seems like someone who is beyond human. he literally can do everything, and he has such a nice personality and good looking…. phew
But even him, I don't think he wasn't like that when he started it. 
he focused on his own unique skills and he seems to be always being his authentic self. that made him who he is today.
The difference is he started at an early age in his life. and that's all.

finding your uniqueness and niche, and being who you are is the way to be the best of all.