It took me a long time to realize that I was clinging on to a relationship that was unhealthy. It takes a great deal of courage to let go and start over!It is so difficult to let go of a huge mistake that took so much time/money/life from us, leaving nothing left for anything else...Accepting reality is the hardest thing to do but it's the truth and sometimes you just half to accept it.Sometimes things have such a tight hold on us. It's hard to let go. I'm trying to accept and forgive my mistakes. It's a struggle.