What you don't need, even if you are forced to give it to you, it will only be wasted.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "what you don't need, even if you are forced to give it, it will only be in vain."

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

People who force me to give it to me even though I'm saying "I don't need it."

For example, "Okay, okay, I have some left over at home" or, "Isn't that hard to see?" Or, "This is better," or even though I didn't say I wanted it, I forced myself to give it to you.

To be honest, this is annoying, isn't it?

But I'm sure most people can't say it because they have horns, and I think everyone has their own reasons.

But on the contrary, from the person who gave it to me, I'm sure I only think, "I did a good thing."

That's because I haven't analyzed the other person's reaction at all.

It's because you can't feel the other person's gestures, mouth, facial expressions, voice quality, reaction speed, and all the signs that the person is giving at all.

How is that person's normal reaction?

What is your expression when you'm having fun?

What is your voice quality?

How much is your voice?

What about gestures?

On the other hand, what do you do when you don't like it?

What's your facial expression?

In the same way, what about the voice quality?

If you observe that person on a regular basis like this and know what kind of reaction it is when you have fun and what kind of reaction it is when you don't like it, you will know if you are saying that you really don't need it at that time, or if you are saying that you don't hold back. It's coming to be.

If that person throws away what I gave you, what would you do?

And what if you find it?

It's the worst, isn't it? I feel.

You may have a grudge.

But this is the seeds I invited.

I just shook off what you said, "I don't need it, I don't need it", but that person was also in trouble and didn't know what to do, so it ended up being an act of throwing it away.

In other words, it is not a mistake to say that your first act brought out the person's act of "throw away".

When this happens, we don't feel good about each other, do we?

Maybe my feelings will go away for a long time.

So, measures to take in order not to be like this.

That is, as mentioned above, to analyze the other person.

If you do that, you will be able to understand the other person's feelings and build a better relationship with that person.

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