A great deal that only happens to people who understand that people are the creatures they want to talk about.

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Even if you talk endlessly about things that you are only interested in yourself, don't you think it doesn't ring a bell at all?

For example, if you like that person too much, you can listen to such an uninterested story until the end, but even if you are told an uninterested story from someone who has no respect or favor at all, I feel like I'm just deprived of my time.

If you're going to say it randomly, "Are you listening to me properly?" Or, suddenly there was a no-out test...

In such a case, we also said appropriately, "I'm listening. I'm listening." I'll cheat you and pass the place.

Still, he ate down and said, "Then, what did you say?" Or, if you are asked, if you pick up what you remember as much as you can, connect it in fragments and talk, you will get an answer from the other party, so you can usually do something about it.

(People have a habit they have acquired in order to survive from ancient times, and basically everyone tries to talk only about themselves.

In other words, it means that you are only interested in yourself.

That's why listening to people's stories is a high hurdle in the first place.

By the way, I realized that listening to people's stories becomes a job, and the profession that strengthens that ability is a counselor, but listening is such an ability that you can't learn unless you train.

So if you've ever been told, "You're a good listener," I definitely recommend you to improve your ability.

One more thing, I'll teach you how to deal with when you're not listening.

The way to deal with it is to use the habits of people as mentioned above.

In other words, people are creatures that they want to talk to, so they make them talk more and more from their own mouths.

Even if you don't listen to the story, don't listen to me, and honestly say, "I'm sorry, I didn't listen to you just now," or "Oh, so?" Or, "Is that so, and then?" Or, let the other person talk more and more.

Then, even if you don't listen to the story of the first half, what you heard in fragments will have a connection in your brain, and eventually the story that the person wanted to talk about will be completed in your own head.

Is that okay?

I'll say it again.

People are creatures that they want to talk about.

So, rather than getting angry and blaming me for not listening to the story, I want to talk about the story I wanted to talk about first.

So I want to devote time to my story rather than blaming me.

I'm full of that feeling.

So, rather than worrying about what you didn't hear, it's better to focus on letting them continue talking, so it's less stressful for the other person, so not listening won't be a big problem.)

At worst, when I didn't get an answer and I didn't really get anything, I honestly said, "I'm sorry. I didn't hear it." If you apologize, you can do something about it.

However, if you live for a long time, there are times when you have to listen to the other person even if you are not interested.

The more you become an adult, the more opportunities you will have.

Of course, most people sometimes need a useless relationship to go out with people.

While having such a feeling, I will do my best to listen to it until the end, but after all, at that time, "That has nothing to do with me!" I think there are a lot of things that happen.

(There are a lot of people who talk about things that have nothing to do with the other person.

This is also proof that the psychology of simply wanting to be heard is appearing.)

I think it will be decided at the beginning of what is not necessary for me.

At the beginning of the story, stories that are quite related to you and stories that are not so "pin" sensuously, so you can roughly predict the ending.

But because of my nature, I can't cut off the story in the middle, and I can't help but listen to it until the end, so I guess it's even worse.

(If you have the same nature, listening to people's stories is a very good weapon.

As a weapon to increase your value.

You can earn money just by doing that, so if you have any idea, I recommend you to polish that weapon.)

Actually, even if you go out harder, the other person won't care so much, and of course, if you're not careful how you say it, it will be troublesome later, but I guess you should study a little more about how to cut up the story.

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