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That I was amazed at the human ability to get used to it. [chapter 2]

Continued from last time.
------------------------------------------------Finally, when I started writing the business plan, there were many things that I could not handle alone, such as choosing a location, getting quotes from design firms, and finding funding sources.
What should I do about it? I asked my husband. How do you deal with these situations in your company?
I asked my mother, who has experience as a shopkeeper. What kind of agreements are made when renting a place? What do you have to pay attention to when you rent a place?
I asked for a quote on the Internet, but I haven't received a reply.
When I was talking about these things to people around me, I received a lot of help from people with good ideas and things that I could use.

 When I was doing this, I received a lot of help from everyone with good ideas and things we could use.
「Ask, and it shall be given you.(=求めよさらば与えられん?)」 I heard this saying somewhere, and when I continued to ask, I received answers and advice on how to get answers from many people and many places.

 And another happy thing happened.
A few people asked me, "When are you planning to open? I am very happy to report . My child told me ,” I could work part-time in that store in some cases.”  Doesn't this mean that my child approves of me running the store?

 Perhaps it was because I gradually got used to it, little by little, that I myself now took it for granted that I would start my own business. No one has objected so far, probably because we got used to it little by little.
Yes, people have an amazing ability to get used to it!

People are creatures of habituation.

 Now I wonder if I am no longer a housewife. Of course, I will continue to "mainly" do the housework. 
My family and the tea ceremony are my most important things.
I am about to add a "store" to them. I have been working on the idea one by one, and it is taking shape with the involvement of my family and friends.
And they are all so important that they cannot be ranked.
Being a full-time housewife is hard work and I don't want people to think I'm running away from it.
I will continue to do what I need to do.
Of course, I will rely on others.
I can't embark on a new path if I think I'm perfect at both. I don't think my family would want to see me frustrated in this way.
I will do whatever my family needs me to do as much as I can. We are a family, so let's rely on each other.

 Nothing about the future has been decided yet. I am aware that there will be many twists and turns.
At the present time, I would like to do my best to achieve the future I have envisioned.

mica♡matcha

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