Don't play with fire, you'll get burned.

この曲は、paris palomaというアーティストの曲である。

家長制度の父親と男兄弟の家で育ったACの彼女が、ビデオの中で、まさにその状況を描いている。設定は昔のように見えるが、その時から、対して何も変わっていないという女性の理不尽な立場を現している。男性は、椅子に座り、彼女に指示するだけ。腰をあげる事はない。あなたは私に山程のlabor(主に体力的な労働)を強いる。もし、私達に娘が出来れば、娘はあなたが教えた通りに育ち、私と同じ運命を辿るだろう。だから、早く逃げなければと。初めは、穏やかに歌いあげる声が段々と、切迫感を帯びていく。彼女自身、ACであると共に、DV被害者でもある。赤い物を口にいれているのは、果物のようではなく、まるでレバーのようで、タイトルのlabor、労働をまさに休む瞬間もなく、体内にいれられている。(メタファー)….を表現している。アーティストにより、歌詞は詩的な表現やイギリス人独特の使い回しがあり、二日間かけて、私は歌詞を理解した。そして、理解した後で聞きながら、一生に口ずさみながら、嗚咽を鳴らした。こんな素晴らしい曲を作ってくれたことに。。

私は90年代の音楽やアーティストが好きだが、最近のモダンアーティストは、特に女性アーティストはダイレクトに、誰も歌わなかったことをテーマにして、歌い続けている人達が多く圧倒される。尊敬の念しかない。

そこで、そのアーティストを知った人達がコミュニティとなり、シェアしていく。

日本では、女性は叩かれるの男尊女卑社会なので、それがなかなか起こらない。自分で、レーベルに属さずやってる女性というのも、あまり聴かない。海外では、自分で資金が足りないし、セルフプロモーションで、工夫して、音楽を作り、sound cloudなどで、uploadして、他のサイトで、色んな人達にpromoteするのが多い。私もそうやって、知りあったアーティストの中で一人だけ、お気に入りのアーティストがいる。あなたが、女性なら、このビデオをクリックして、とにかく最後まで見てほしい。

I reckon Many people have heard this quote before.
And i agreed.

But when you are in many situation with Nars.

You think "Oh!! I gotta say something. Oh! I shouldn't do this?…otherwise.

Nars likes to push us to the corner.
So they can feel they have power.
They have to be in a charge..
Remember, always.

Nars don't care whatever you think, because they just only need you to hurt you as sundbag or property.

So I still am Not sure..about
"DON'T PLAY WITH FIRE. YOU'll GET BURNED"
There is no right or wrong with them.
But black and white only exist.

Whatever you say, they are always right in their head, anyway.
They are king and you are slave in their world.

Most important thing for Nars is protect their own fragie ego.
How to prove they aren't wrong is always their priority.
They are so sensitive, naive, fragile and very weak.

Coward ass.

This is just an exmample.

You just say to Nar.
"Oh you get new hair cut.Nice.Maybe bright colour tops match with your new hair!"with smile and torn of your voice is soft.

But My ex nar would say "I don't have money because i've spent so much money for you."

They are always have an anger.
And waiting for the timing always.
So, even nice compliments can be big trigger to them. 
Everything can be..it is all up to them.

We can't guess.

Of coure, nothing is wrong with you.
They are just monster.
It is hard to think straight.

And that's the point.
You lost all of your dignity, confidence.
You are losing yourself.
You don't even like yourself.
You are not same anymore…

That's their pleasure.
You are confused and sad, angry,upset and weirdly, you feel guilty.

It is Manipulation.
They are psychopath.
They enjoy each your reaction but on the other hand, 
They get annoyed by you or everyone, everything, etc 
They will Never be satisfied.

And you realize "Wait..i actually don't know this person..at all."

They are good to get your information, detail.

But they don't give to you their information, detail.. what they are doing..at work.
When you guys don't meet…etc 

Who can handle?NOBODY.
LaCK OF EMPATHY.
LaCK OF EMOTION.

They don't think like normal people.
They often do gaslighting, manipulate you.

And they want make you feel guilty so bad because you are beautiful genuine human being!

And they will never be.They're jelous of you.

I was thinking how can i beat them up.
How can i win??

This was wrong.

JUST STAY AWAY FROM THEM AS MUCH AS SOON POSSIBLE.

RUN, Girl!

AND IF YOU CAN'T RUN FOR SOME PERSONAL REASONS. 
Financial problem, family issues etc.

I never blame you, cuz so am i.

DON'T BLAME YOURSEL CUZ I'M with YOU.

WE CAN SLIGHTLY HAVE DISTANCE LIKE BABY STEP.

All right.
TIME TO GO.
HOPE ALL OF US ARE SAFE…
NOW AND TOMORROW AND IN THE NEAR FUTURE.

×How long can we be clean? ×
This is also my record how long that i can have distance from psycho ex.