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How to really be like that person when you think, "I want to be like that person".

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Well, today I'm going to talk about how to really be like that person when you think, "I want to be like that person."

But before that, please.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If that's the way, please share it😁

Then it's the main topic.

Haven't you all admired it at least once?

"Oh, I want to be a good talker like that person," or "I wonder if I can be cheerful and cheerful like this senior."

Other than that, when you see the good points of people you don't have, have you ever been envious of "Ina, Ina"?

I also have it normally.

This kind of thing is called asking for something you don't have, but if you are an ordinary person, you can end up with just asking for something you don't have, but in fact, you can realize asking for something you don't have.

Moreover, it's easy to do.

Just by imitating the person you want to be, you can achieve it.

But most people say it.

"Well, but I'm not that person," "I can't imitate, I can't do it," or "I can do it because I'm that person," I can't decide that I can't do it from the beginning, so I can't do it at first. If you try to do it, it's surprisingly easy to do.

Moreover, where you do it, others are not interested in yourself, so it doesn't affect the people around you that much.

I wonder if the rest is your own preparedness.

It's just whether you really want to see that person or not.

If you want to be serious, you can imitate yourself every day without forgetting who you want to be forever, and if you only imitate every day, it will become a habit in 3 weeks, and if you don't, your body will get irritated. A phenomenon similar to such withdrawal symptoms will occur.

It's just embarrassing at first.

It's different from what I've been before, and if I feel uncomfortable even from the perspective of others, I'll say, "Oh! What's wrong? The atmosphere is different" or "What's that, isn't it different from usual?" You may say that, but you don't listen to such things.

Because I'm trying to be serious to become the person I want to be, so it's natural to be different from my previous self.

Rather, the line of the person who tries to restore it is usually "Somehow different from usual, what's wrong?" Or, it's a line that says, "It's not the usual 〇〇-chan."

When I heard this, it was a little awkward, so I thought, "I wonder if I'll go back after all," or "It's different from my usual self, and it's no good," or "It doesn't suit me," and if I try to put it back, I'll lose.

Then it's no different from my usual self, so even if you say that, it depends on whether you can say "I think I'm going to change" and say "Please support me."

It means whether it's serious or not.

Is it good, it's important, so I'll repeat it.

When people try to change, there are always people who try to put it back.

The more familiar you are, the more likely you are to be that kind of person.

But I'll tell you clearly at that time.

"I want to be like that person!" I said.

If you do that, some people will replace those who will support you, while others will still try to bring you back to the original place.

After that, all you have to do is choose which type of person you want to go out with.

So, how was it, today's story?

Every day like this, I also blog about self-development of how to become the person I want to be, psychology, how to live a stress-free life using the mechanism of the brain.

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