When you have something to ask, you should tell them exactly what you want to hear before you start talking.

Well,

Are you around?

People who come in from an abstract way of listening even though they may have something to ask.

for example

"What kind of talk did you have with Mr. XX at that time?"

"Mr. OO, did you say anything about me?"

"This weekend, I'm free, right?"

Even if you are asked "What did you talk about?"

I rarely talk about one or two topics,

What topic are you interested in among the topics you talked about multiple times?

I have to bother to ask again from here,

Even if you are asked "Did you say something?"

I often say a lot of things

I don't know what you want to ask

Even if you are told "I'm free"

If you're not interested, you'll end up with a single word, "Huh."

That is,

I'll ask you for something.

or

I have something to ask and I'm calling out

If you don't bother to talk more for another turn, the conversation won't go on.

If you do it all the time, it will be unexpectedly troublesome.

When it comes to

What happens is

Conversation with that person naturally has become a hassle,

Eventually you will move away.

I don't think I could communicate with this,

The work and social activities that everyone gathers together will hinder you.

Then, what to do in such a case,

Today's conclusion.

If you have something to ask

The first thing to do is to talk specifically about what you want to hear and then start talking.

That way, it's easy for the other person to answer,

Because I can hear what I want to hear the most first

You can also relax later in the conversation.

At first

Rather than getting tired of being talked about something I don't understand

First ask what you want to hear,

It will be a digression later,

The one who talked about the recent situation

It's easy for the other person to stop talking and return to their work or errands.

I was talking about somehow abstract things,

Maybe the other person got a call and I couldn't ask what I wanted to hear

It's possible that the place will be dissolved.

If so

If you have something to ask

First of all, listen.

Moreover, I will ask you specifically.

With this method

It doesn't waste your time, so

I think we can build a good relationship with each other.

So today

I said, "When you have something you want to hear, you should tell them exactly what you want to hear before you start talking."

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