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Labeling your personality makes it difficult to live.
Hello everyone.
Sai&Co.WAKU Chare Lab's Sai&Co. It is.
Today, I'm going to talk about "It's hard to live if you label your personality."
First of all, if you say "I'm glad" about this story today, please share it😁
Let's get down to business.
Well, everyone.
First of all, I will ask you.
My personality is like this!" Is there anyone who decides that?
Actually, this is very dangerous.
Because if this decision is imprinted in the brain, you can only move exactly that way.
For example, with someone else's personality, "Oh, that. I'm jealous of that personality." Have you ever felt it?
In addition, there are times when you envy the personality you don't have, such as "I wish I had a personality like that person ..."
But if you practice the method of telling you from now on, you can get the personality that you thought he was envious.
What to do with that? This is today's conclusion.
It means that I will try to play the personality that other people think is good.
Actually, this is all I need.
But there may be many people who think, "I can't do it because I'm embarrassed," "I can't do it because I'm too bold," or "I can't do it because I'm resented", but even if I try it unexpectedly, people around me don't care that much.
At first, just a little bit, "Eh?" It may be a face, but if you keep doing it with a calm face, people around you will get used to it, and you will get used to playing the personality you wanted to be.
In about 3 weeks, people have the nature of getting used to it.
Then the people around you get the illusion that your personality has been like that for a long time.
This method is a method using brain science and psychology.
If you really envy other people's personalities, please give it a try.
Moreover, please rest assured.
People's memories are vague, so after an hour, you forget 40% of the events, and after a day, you forget 70%.
So, about half of the events you have just done, most people forget it after an hour, and after a day, they forget 70%.
What's more, the good thing about Japanese people is that even if you remember it, they hardly say it in front of that person.
There may be something to say in secret, but you don't have to worry about it unless it's in your ears.
Because if you care about that, you can't get involved with people.
That's hypothetical.
Even if you are told to yourself, it's true, so there's no way to change it.
In such a case, all you have to do is accept the fact and give up.
Then, after an hour, you will forget about half of the events, and after a day, you will forget 70%.
All you have to do is repeat this.
Basically, everyone is not free, so I don't remember much.
By the way, after half a year, they will forget the 90% type, so let's do our best for half a year.
What do you think?
If you think about it this way, should I try it quite casually? Don't you mind?
I know a lot of other ways to have courage, so I think I can propose a way that suits you.
If you are interested, please register as a friend from my official LINE and ask questions.
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See you later✌️
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