If you move for people, you will receive a special reward.

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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "When I move for people, I have a special reward waiting for them."

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Now is the main topic.

Is there a time when you can accept it honestly even if someone says something to you?

I think that there are cases where the latter person is rather repulsive and does not accept that person at all, and eventually you don't want to talk, don't want to see your face, or become seriously ill.

(There are quite a lot of things that are said by various people such as superiors, subordinates, parents, brothers, friends, etc. Why are you saying that? When I'm told that it's not what I wanted you to say, I can't accept it the most.)

What is the difference between when you can accept it and when you can't? Have you ever thought about it?

You may be scolded for saying, "I don't have that much time," but in fact, it's a story about whether there is "respect" or not.

(A year ago, the way I answered was too sudden, and when I read it now, I almost blew out. I'm sorry, I'm going back to the story, but don't you listen well? You should listen to people's advice honestly. In other words, others can see well what you can't see yourself, so there are plenty of things that you don't notice about other people's advice and your own evaluation. Both good and bad places. Even if you just notice it, it's quite a good deal.)

If you respect the other person, no matter what you say, no matter what harsh you say, I think you can honestly accept it because you say it for yourself.

But on the other hand, if you don't respect me, no matter what you hear, no matter how much you worry about yourself and tell me, you can't accept it at all, and I think you will return and rebel.

(I'll give an example and explain. For example, it may be extreme, but even if a kindergartener gives me advice, "What, hun!" I think it's like that. But what if a university professor tells you? " What, hun!" It's not that, "That's right, I see." Isn't that what it is? What's different about this? It's the opening of ability. Generally speaking, when you look at a kindergartener on your own axis, you think that your ability is far inferior to almost any of them, and on the contrary, university professors have higher knowledge and experience, and maybe their income than you, so that person says It will be difficult to have doubts about things. In other words, it means that it can be expressed in the word "respect".)

In other words, in order to get along with the other person, it is important to get "respect" first.

However, in order to get this respect, you can't say, "Well, I'll buy it at a convenience store."

What's more, it's not sold at a supermarket or home center in the neighborhood, and it's not something you can order if you search on the Internet.

In other words, it's a pretty convenient world, but it's not something you can easily get.

Then, what should I do to get this?

I think it's nothing but to "move for people" steadily.

"If you move steadily, when will you give it to me!" It will be a story, but I don't know that either.

I think it depends on the other person.

(It's a simple story, if you are disliked, you won't get respect at all. In other words, for the other person, you should not become a disgusting existence, a disliked existence, or a bad existence. However, it's a little different to flatter and humble down in order to be liked. There are people who don't like it. So, what should I do to become a person who is liked by the other person? That's what I mean, but I can't get into this continuation when I start writing due to the number of characters, so if you are interested, please register my official LINE as a friend and ask questions from there. I will post the LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog, so please register from there.)

The only thing I know is that if you give up on the way, you won't get it for the rest of your life.

If you want to get respect from that person, it may be a roundabout way, but I recommend you to work hard for that person.

(There's a little hint here. " It means to move for that person.)

It's just that I'm not asking you to accept unreasonable things.

If you force yourself to do something impossible, you will only break your body, so please try to work on it while listening to the opinions of people around you who look at yourself objectively.

(There are also hints here that you shouldn't do it. Doing it so as not to hurt yourself is a long-lasting point.)

See you later✌️

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