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Basically, people have the nature of wanting others to be interested in.

Hello, everyone.

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Well, today I will talk about "Basically, people have a nature that they want others to be interested in."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How about you all?

For example, have you ever thought, "Oh, I wonder if you are interested in that person"?

Me too, but I think there are most of them once.

That's because people say that they can't live alone after all.

In other words, the fact that you can't live alone also means that you can't live without being involved with people, so you can't get involved unless you are interested in people.

So, if you can't live, it's related to the survival instinct, so it can be said that it's a nature that is ultimately incorporated into DNA.

However, it's not that everyone can't live without being with someone, and if you look at the world, there may be people who are self-sufficient in food and make a place to live and clothes alone.

If you say so, I'm sure you have a special nature in a good sense.

So, if it ends here, it's somewhat unsatisfactory, so I'm going to add another bonus to those who have read this far.

That is, the nature that the majority of people have "I want others to be interested in", so what can this be used for? That's what I mean.

I'm going to talk about that.

Let's start with the conclusion right away.

It can be used to gain the trust of the other party.

Gaining the trust of the other party is useful in many ways.

For example, in terms of work, the relationship with superiors and subordinates will be better, and in salespeople, it will be easier to get a contract.

It can also be used in love.

By gaining the trust of the other party, the probability of dating will increase, and you will be able to build a good family relationship at home as well.

In this way, it is very important to gain trust, and it becomes necessary in various places where people are involved.

Then, next, how exactly can I get it? As for, the nature in the first place is that "I want others to be interested", so you just need to be interested in the other person.

But you can't just be interested.

It can't be conveyed just by hiding it in your heart, so be sure to deliver it to the other person out loud.

I need this.

It takes a little courage here, but once you say it, you will get used to it unexpectedly, and you will be able to talk to yourself first without hesitation.

If you're still worried, "What should I say first?" Or, "I called out to you, but the conversation doesn't continue," or "You won't deal with me," I think some of you are worried.

There is also a conversation technique for those who say so, but it will be a little too long in this blog to tell you that much, so if you are interested, please register on my official LINE and ask questions from there.

I will answer you politely as soon as possible.

The URL of the official LINE is posted at the bottom of this blog.

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Today's story.

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