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In fact, pretending that you can't hear is useful for relieving stress! ️ (2021/10/4 I pretended not to hear someone saying the same thing every time, so I pretended not to hear it!! ️'s brush-up blog)

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today is ′′ actually pretending not to hear is useful for stress relief!! ️” I will brush up and explain my past blog.

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Now let's get down to business.

As per the theme, I'll give it a try.

I was able to pass without incident.
​​(Pretending not to hear. Also known as ignoring. If anything, does this one sound familiar? Generally, it is not used in a very good sense, but it can be used effectively. It can be used as a means of relieving stress as much as possible.However, there are people who take courage to use it, but this is also an unexpected assumption.This is because when we usually work, we need to concentrate. Sometimes you can't hear when someone calls you, right?On the other hand, have you ever been so absorbed in a conversation with someone that you called them but they didn't answer?As a phenomenon, ignoring is the same as this. The only difference is whether or not you recognize the person you are calling.This is something that can't be helped due to the structure of the brain.No matter how many times we are called, our ears are normal. However, if you don't recognize what is being called in your brain, you won't hear it.In other words, if you intentionally create this state, you can consciously ignore it. But it's only for the first 3 weeks or so.It will become a habit and your body will get used to it.Then you can create this state of ignorance when you need it.But please promise me that you will never abuse it. It is prohibited. It is not allowed to use it to hurt people.)​​

After that, I don't have to say anything and I'm going through it normally.
​​(That's right. It's exactly like this. As I'll write later, surprisingly, people are not interested in other people's affairs. They are only interested in themselves. It's only natural, isn't it? I can't enjoy anything, I can't live, and it's not like other people live my life, so naturally, 90% of the people in the world are themselves first. That said, there are some people who live for the sake of others at the cost of self-sacrifice.

It's really hard to deal with people who keep saying the same thing over and over again...
​​(I guess my head is usually filled with various things. That's why I can't retain memories, and I'm in a state where memories that I think are unnecessary are erased one by one. You'll get a flat head if you do.)​​

I mean, honestly, it's annoying.

If it's someone who doesn't mean anything, I think I'll still be able to talk to them, but I honestly think it's a waste of time to talk to someone who talks to them like they're mean, so I think you can just ignore them by pretending you can't hear them.
​​(It's partly my prejudice to say that there is malice, but aren't there any of them? People who are in a hurry and are stopped and talk about something unrelated, or talk about good things later. , People who tell good things by email, LINE, or notes.People who are obviously busy, but when the situation requires them to hurry, they dare to call out.The timing is bad and you can't read the mood. You can say that, but people tend to get past it and think that it's a bad feeling. I recommend that you put effort into building relationships like this.)​​

But unexpectedly, the other person doesn't care about it when I ignore it.

"Oh! Didn't you hear me?"

So, without worrying about this, I came to think that if I ignored it, there would be no problem.
​​(People's memories are also sloppy, and about 70% of the things that happened that day are said to be forgotten after a day. If you think about it that way, no matter what you do, you'll eventually forget, so why not take the plunge? )​​

However, if you ignore it when someone says something to your face, it will be a little confusing...
​​(Moreover, if you do too much, people will notice, so if you don't want to ruin the relationship too much, you should consider how often you use ignore. On the other hand, if you want to cut ties completely , If you do it more often, the relationship will naturally weaken.)​​

For those who don't notice how long it takes, it may be better to deal with salt like this.

So how was this story today?

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See you soon ✌️

Abuse is strictly prohibited.​​

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