After what I did, "How was it?" The psychology of people who ask.

Hello, everyone.

Sai&Co.Sai&Co. of WAKU Chare Labo It is.

Today, I said, "How was it after what I did?" I will talk about the psychology of people who ask me.

First of all, if you say "it was good" about this story today, please share it😁

Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

After what I did, "How was it?" Or, "Was it no good?" Or, "Is it good?" People who ask me.

At first glance, people who say this seem to care about the other person, but in fact, they only think about themselves, and how do they look at the other person? Wasn't what you did a nuisance? Or, didn't you do something strange? Or, I talk in a way that focuses on what I've done.

That's because, first of all, if you don't care about what you did, go out of your way later, "How was that?" You don't ask me, do you?

The fact that I don't care means that the event has already fallen out of my mind, so I don't bother to remember it myself.

But if you say the event yourself before the other person says it, it means that the event still remains in your head.

In other words, there's something I still care about myself.

That's why I said what I did later, "How was it? Was it no good? Was it good?" That's why I'm asking.

However, I'm not saying that this is all bad, but in fact, only for those who say things that care about people, they really love themselves the most, care about themselves the most, and care about their actions. I'm a person.

That's why people who say this are quite sensitive in their hearts, so if you say words that affirm the other person, such as "It's okay," "Don't worry," "It went well," and so on, that person will be happy to work and study. You will be able to do your best, such as club activities, circle activities, etc.

So how was today's story?

"After what I did, "How was it?" I've talked about the psychology of people who ask me.

If you know this psychology, you can use it in many ways.

For example, how to handle people with such a personality, how to deal with such a person, if you have such a personality and you can think of something, I think you can use it in various ways, such as where to be careful.

So, if you want to ask a little more about how to use it, please register on my official LINE and ask questions from there.

Then, if you say "It was good" about today's story, please introduce it to your friends.

See you later✌️