質問箱回答#59「好きな人に」

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59個目の質問は「好きな人に手握られたら照れる？」でした。
手を握られた後の事を考えますね。
手を握って終わりだったら、残念かもしれない。

Perhaps it is just me, but it makes me think about what will happen next.
Most likely, the kind of person I would date would be forward and proactive.
In other words, I would not be attracted to shy and reserved person. 
Some people like to take it slow. 
I am not it. 
It also means that I can quickly know if I am attracted to someone.
Nothing would happen, even holding a hand. 

Seemingly romantic and non-verbal communication turns me off.
Japanese dramas are not my taste as so many things turn me off. 
However, it is all cute and sweet if it is in a book. 
I prefer literature and cute stories over real people out there unless they are easy to understand. 

I am not sure if this is the kind of answer you expected from me. 
This is a good question because it says a lot about a person and his/her preferences. 
If anyone asks me if holding a hand makes me shy, my response would be "what are you talking about…?" 
"Holding a hand and what? and what?" would be my questions.