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4 ways to boost your communication skill on SNS

Do you know anyone like this around you?

Someone always popular with everyone.
Someone always surrounded by smiles.
Always adored, respected and trusted by everyone.
Someone always helped by others.
Someone always made everything successful.

What is the difference between you and the ideal person?

The difference is "a communication skill."

You also can make your life better by improving your communication skills, and then your life will be with more smiles, happiness, money, dreams and successes.

Today, I'm going to talk about "4 ways to boost your communication skill on SNS", and It will focus on SNS in the virtual world particularly, but the fundamental can be applied to your real world as well.

I hope that your life will be more delightful by putting today's learning into practice.

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Let's get down to the business.

"4 ways to boost your communication skill on SNS" are as follows

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Principle 1. Say what they want to hear

Most people on SNS are "Like" collectors.

All you have to do is to satisfy their desire for recognition by writing down something they want to hear, and then your impression will skyrocket.

For example, if they posted a nice photo of a beach. You want to say "That's so beautiful! It's like a postcard!" Even if you don't think much so.

The trick here is to think about what they want to be hear, not what you think.

If a little kid comes to you and says, "Look, look, I drew this picture," even if it is not good at all, You would say, "Well done, that is a nice looking picture" It's more important to give them the phrases they want to hear than your opinion.

Principle 2. When you disagree, ask questions.

Your opinion is often the opposite of what they want to hear, and you do not wish to agree with the post. What would you do?

Firstly, you should never ignore your important people's SNS posts, So make sure to respond to them. But how?

If that's the case, ask a question by thinking you're an interviewer who's interested in what they have to say.

If you don't agree with them, it's an opportunity for you to learn something you don't know.
If you don't agree with them, it's an opportunity for you to grow.

For example, if I see a post about "mint chocolate chipped ice cream" which you do not like at all.  Instead of ignoring the post or stating your real opinion, Ask a question like "How was the taste?" or "Where did you get it?".

You should try to find "difference" instead of "Similarities" and take the stance that you want to learn from them.

No matter how politely you "argue", there are times when the spikes rise, so you tell your brain that "Ask questions when you want to argue."

Principle 3. Do your best to encourage them when they are negative.

But what do you do if the other person says something negative?  I often say that stay away from negative energy and keep the distance as much as you can from a negative person. But if the person is someone you think it is very important. Do your best to encourage them.

For example, a negative post like "Oh damn, I failed the exam! LoL " You can say "Never mind, You can do it next time for sure.". By doing your best to encourage them, you'll be much closer to each other.

Principle 4. Take an action

This technique may be a bit of an advanced method, but when the opportunity arises, tell them something can lead to a new action. 

For example, if it's someone's birthday, you could say, "Let me buy you an ice cream to celebrate," 

If you try to connect to the action, you two will be much closer.

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Wrapping up

In this article, I've suggested ways to improve your communication skills on SNS. What did you think?

People with excellent communication skills are naturally more accommodating to their important ones around them. 

Satisfy your love one's desire for recognition, and if they are negative, Do your best to encourage them. Then they will be covered with your warm love, and you are liked by them more.

Practice what you've learned today, your communication skills will naturally improved and more smiles, happiness, money, dreams and success will come to you!

Other than today's topic, I am also planning to introduce the followings about communication skills.

1. How to give good praise and appreciation
2. Tips on how to speak and listen well
3. How to prepare to meet your loved ones to like you

So please follow me and stay tuned! 

Thank you for staying with me until the end of this topic

Have a good day.

Peace

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