【3 regrets of dying】I wish I cared less of what others think (3/3)

I introduced "【3 regrets of dying】I wish I had more gratitude in my life (1/3)" and "I wish I hadn't worked so hard(2/3)" in my previous blogs and hopefully, you liked them.

If you have not had a look them yet, please find the links below and check them out too.

I wish I had more gratitude in my life (1/3)

I wish I hadn't worked so hard(2/3)

In today's topic, I am going to talk about "I wish I cared less of what others think"

【3 regrets of dying】I wish I cared less of what others think (3/3)

"I was too worried about what people would think of me"
"I couldn't live my life as I was myself"
"I didn't do the work I loved"

Regrets like, "I really wanted to be a cook, but I did not want to disappoint my parents and teachers' expectations, so I became a doctor.

Life revolves around work

If you don't enjoy your work at all, of course, you won't enjoy your life either.
You will end up working only for the money.

Also, parents and teachers give advice, but they don't take "responsibility for your life".

You may need to be prepared to "decide" your life by yourself.

And there's another regret example like following.

I didn't say what I wanted to say

You can avoid relationship problems by just saying things what other people want to hear. 

However, that would be a superficial relationship.

It will be a lonely life as you do not have someone can trust you from their heart.

In the other hand,  When you talk about your true feelings coming from your heart, some people will hate you, but there are always people who will say, "I like your thoughts".

If you're not doing anything wrong,  It's better to open yourself up and speak your thoughts up honestly.

There is such a regret example as follows.

I've lived my life hiding my true self.

If you like it, you say you like it.
If you don't like it, say you don't like it.
If you miss them, say you miss them
If you're sad, say you're sad
If you want help, say help.

I couldn't take such those actions.

My regret is that pride got in the way and I've been living my "fake self" all my life.

Sometimes it's important to feel like a child and express your feelings honestly.

Action plans

So far, you've been introduced to all three "regrets of daying".
How do we live our lives so that we don't regret our lives?
I have summarised the action plans as follows.

(1/3) I wish I had more gratitude in my life
The lesson to take away from this is to find lots of "great things and people" in your life and always make it a habit to say thank you!
Live your life with a feeling of "thankfulness".
I think that's the easiest thing to do.

(2/3) I wish I hadn't worked so hard
The lesson to take away from this is to spend more time with your family and friends!  Do more exciting experience with them like trips, camping, board games, walks and anything else you can think of to experience together.

I wish I cared less of what others think (3/3)

The lesson we can take away from this is the courage to live according to your own feelings!

The way others look at you
The expectations of those around you
The common sense of the world

If you let those things be the basis of your life, you'll never get the life you want.

I think it's important to live your life with your honest feelings.

Summing up

In this day and age, we have the freedom to decide our own lives for ourselves.

Free to work, Free to quit the company, Free to live brightly, Free to live darkly...

You have freedoms to do anything but

Your freedoms always are with your responsibility.

In other words, you have no choice but to take responsibility for your own life.

You are the one to put your life together by your self.

If you don't want to regret your life. Ask your self

What would you regret if you died now?

You may find out what you really wish.

For example, If you think "I wish I had a lot of children,", then you will naturally think, "I want to get married with loved one early and have a lot of children".

You are living your life not the fake one that others expect. How the way you live is totally up to you. Look at your self and find what you wish carefully so you do not regret your life.

Thank you for staying with me till the end of this topic. I hope you find it useful and hit the like and subscription buttons.

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The books I introduced earlier of this series can be found in the description section down below.

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