"Hang in there, you are strong" に対して感じる、しんどさ、違和感。My thoughts.
よく、言われる言葉。
相手は、励ましのつもり。
それを言われ、しんどいと伝えても、それでも、繰り返し言ってきたり、何で?駄目なのか、分からない人は世間に、スッゴク多いよね。
既にやり遂げてきて疲弊してる人間には、逆効果だし、聞きたくもない言葉。
これ以上、何を望むの?てのが本音。
I always feel pressure.
Especially some people know what I've been going through,they still say. "Hang in there, hun.Ik you can do it because you're strong "
It sound easy and basic and easily say to someone who already made it,.isn't it?
I'm strong enough to through another day doesn't mean i wanna hear those words.
I'm so sick of hearing same stuff every day.
We aren't machine.
The Most important thing is,
Being fragile/weak doesn't define "weakness"