"My place"

I believe that people are happiest when they can live in a place where they can truly feel at ease that this is "my place". I also believe that everyone is looking for a place where they can truly feel at ease.

However, the "my place" here is not just a physical place, but rather a spiritual "place of the heart" where a relationship is established and where you feel at ease. In other words, it is the relationships with other people that define "my place" and only when there is a relationship in which one feels safe, the physical place where one spends time with these people also takes on an important meaning as a symbol of that relationship.

Generally speaking, society and parents tend to think that being a member of a larger, more famous, or higher-order place is secure and happy. However, I believe that "a place where you feel truly secure" does not simply mean belonging to something big, famous, or at the top of the pecking order, but rather "a place where your existence is recognized as important by a certain person or group of people".

Because it is a place where you are valued, you can value others. Because you value the other person, you can be in a place where you are also valued. In other words, "I exist in the heart of the other person, and the other person exists in my heart". When people can realize such a relationship with each other, they feel that they "belong" in that relationship.

Only you can sense where or with whom you "belong", and only you can find it. Therefore, I believe that trusting your own heart and starting to move, first making a place for someone else in your heart, is the start of the journey to find "my place". Only when you have a place for the other person in your heart, can you work to have them place you in their heart. That other person can be a partner, a family member, a team, or an organization, but above all, I believe that the partner leads to the greatest happiness.