When you dare to tell your true feelings, choose what you want to do
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "When you dare to say your true feelings, choose what you want me to do".
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Well, everyone.
What kind of time is it when you want to tell your true feelings?
While saying that, it has become a way of speaking that has been determined about everyone without permission, but when the irritation accumulates and is about to explode, "I want to tell the other person's true feelings!" Don't you think so?
Or is it when you want to find the other person's fault and point it out?
Or do you want to do it just as a distraction?
Well, if you choose the last reason, it would be better to rethink your future life.
There may be a sense of unnecessary care, but because he has a personality that seems to have a slightly dark side on the surface, so if you are doing it intentionally, if you are doing it unconsciously, it's a good sinner. Please be careful.
Well, aside from the aside, today was the best thing I wanted you to do when you dare to tell your true feelings.
How are you all?
When I want to do this, I get the urge to do it when I want to cure other people's bad points.
However, it doesn't suit my personality to hit me head-on, so I don't do that with dignity.
But the way I'm telling you today is a bit close to the way of a head-to-head match.
While saying, "I won't do it myself."
However, some people think that this method suits their personality, so today I will talk about the method for those with such personalities.
Well, let's take a look at the specific method.
It is "dare to tell that person your true feelings in front of everyone".
Quite, "Oh!" Isn't it a way to feel like that?
Isn't it a head-to-head match?
In baseball, which straight is it?
If you're a little wrong, you're going to fight and break up, right?
You need courage, don't you?
That's right, this method is quite suitable for people with honest and honest personalities, and impatient people who want answers immediately.
Then, the reason why I recommend this method that seems to fight with each other at first glance is because it leaves a powerful impression on the other person.
For example, when a person encounters a shocking event, the event will not be out of his mind for the rest of his life, right?
That overgoing event is traumatic though.
Well, even if it doesn't go that far, if you give the other person such a strong impression, you won't forget it.
The worst thing is that no matter how much I tell you, the other person will forget, so even if I tell you that it's good, it doesn't matter to the other party, but as far as I'm concerned, I have to talk quite seriously. Isn't there a time when the temperature difference between each other is too far apart?
At this time, it is more effective than when used normally.
For example, let's say you think it's good and tell the other person's bad points.
"You'd better fix this place!" And so on.
However, even if you tell them in the usual conversation as if they were by the way, most people don't care about it.
Because few people think it's a problem.
If you think it's a problem, the reaction at that time will change.
Don't pass through, bite a little or get annoyed.
But if you say that there is no such reaction, it means that you are not aware of it at all.
That means, every time you see what you want to fix, you say it.
"It's better to fix this place", "It will be better if you fix it here."
But the other party doesn't accept it, no matter how many times I'm told.
If you spend time like this, you'll get tired this time, because no matter how many times I say it, it won't get fixed.
What will happen if that happens?
I'm sure you'll give up.
"It's useless to say any more."
Well, it would be nice if it could end there, but that kind of thing fails, and unexpectedly, human relationships are broken.
When people end up with negative emotions, the next negative side, the bad side of that person, comes to your eyes, unless you can switch your mentality.
If that happens, as long as the dispersion accumulates more and more, each other's hearts will move away, and this scenario will progress.
If so, if you think it's someone you don't want to be like that, I'll shock you early on.
For the other party, it is a shocking situation that shocks the opponent.
If you do that, you won't be able to listen to it, and it will be deeply engraved in your heart, and it's a kind of shock therapy.
Isn't it good to be hated by that?
Because in the end, the ending will probably be the same.
It's also tiring to reluctantly deceive your feelings and go out with the other person, isn't it?
First, people who are tired of dating will not last long.
This is the same for families and couples.
That's what people are like.
People are made to be the longest to date people who are comfortable with.
In other words, sooner or later, right?
I think there are many people who have experienced one of these two choices sooner or later, right?
At the end, it is good to tell your true feelings in front of everyone, but when you talk about something particularly bad, you should never deny the personality of the other person.
If you say something that denies the other person's personality, the relationship will end immediately.
For example, "That's why I don't have friends!" Or, "That's why everyone hates me!" Or, "That's why I can't get married!" Or something like that.
So today, I'm going to talk a little bit like martial arts, how was it?
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