If you want to change yourself, this is an easy way to do this.

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Well, today I will talk about "an easy way to do this if you want to change yourself" while brushing up my past blog.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

I feel it when I talk to people.

It means that no matter how much you talk about yourself, if you are told arrogantly, you will lose the will at all.

Certainly, even if there are results, status, honor, and confidence, I don't think I will connect with such a person.

If it's full of merits...

Then I think I'll look for another person and learn from that person.

(This is a useful way when looking for a mentor.

In other words, no matter how much you have made great achievements, you don't have to force yourself to make that person your mentor when you have a bad use of words, or when there are difficulties in your behavior, and the parts that you can't set an example stand out.

There is no such thing as "You have to be that person", and if you look for it, you will find as many similar people as you want, and there is no need to narrow down the number of mentors to one.

So, there is no problem with the tips when looking for a mentor if you decide whether it is comfortable to be with that person or not.)

Now you can easily connect with people from all over the world through SNS.

In the past, I often learned the way of thinking of celebrities from interview articles and published editions of specialized magazines, but it has become an era where you can gather information really conveniently.

In other words, the easiest thing to learn from this is that it's better to smile and speak gently when you speak.

(It is one of the techniques when leaving a good impression on the other person.

Smile and speak gently.

It's a swindler who abused this.

The scammers are approaching pretending to be good people.

And after making people trust, they keep the assets and disappear as they are.

Basically, it is a constant means of fraudsters in everything.

Then, what happens if you use that technique for good, as long as you don't deceive, you will be trusted by people and you can become a good friend.

If you have a lot of trust, you will get a lot of benefits.

In the workplace, there are many benefits in other situations, such as making it easier to get promoted, doing the work you want to do, so there should be no way to miss this.)

If you are a one-man who doesn't bend your stance and just say, "Follow only those who can follow this style," you will eventually be abandoned by everyone and lonely.

If you are a person who has to be connected no matter what, you will need to be patient and listen to it, but as soon as the merit disappears, you will leave.

(The foundation of a good human relationship is always necessary to have the foundation of "respect".

Without that foundation, even if you build a building on it, it will be broken immediately.

In other words, even if a person who has money distributes money, no matter how much a person who knows delicious food offers delicious things,

Even if you give an expensive wallet or jewelry, you will be happy for a moment, but you will soon forget about it.

Even if you remember the person who gave it, the person who got it will forget it unexpectedly soon.

Even if you get this from someone you don't respect at all, it's just a baking blade.

Therefore, in order to build a solid human relationship, you have to be careful about words and actions that are usually respected.)

Now you can move your place relatively easily, and if the air doesn't match, you just need to change.

That's "This is the only place I am!" Everyone who thinks that and can't change it because they don't try to change it will get sick.

(As a characteristic of people who tend to think like this, the following people apply.

One is a person whose scope of action is narrow.

The other is a person who only talks to the same person every time.

For example, people who only go back and forth between work and home every day.

I don't leave home even on my days off, and only for people like this, I follow the same way every time, enter the same convenience store, and only talk to the same people.

I'm sleeping at home on my days off.

In this case, the range of what you see and hear will be too narrow, so the opportunities to touch new information will be reduced.

If that happens, the stimulation of the brain will decrease, and a kind of suggestion-like effect will appear, and you can rest assured that your surroundings have not changed.

I feel very comfortable in such a safe space.

That's why I really want to get out of my current place, but I tend to say, "It's okay because the people around me are the same."

Of course, I think there are many other reasons why you can't get out, but in the deep psychological part, there is such a function of the mind and the action of the brain.)

The place where you are now is not everything.

Let's look around for a moment.

The Internet can easily teach others how to live.

What kind of way of life is there in the world?

People who are unhappy even if they have money, people who are happy even if they are poor, people who have no time for hobbies at all due to long working hours, people who value hobby time rather than working, the Internet teaches you various ways to live.

If you compare it with that, you will understand how small you are.

The rest is the courage to step forward.

If the place where you are now is cramped, I recommend you to leave immediately.

See you later✌️

(So how was it, today's story?

Even if you read it to the end, anyone who didn't really understand is the autobiography of a person who has achieved great success, anyone is fine.

I recommend that you go to a bookstore and read the autobiography of at least 3 to 5 people who are interested.

If you do that, you will find that there is something unexpected in common.

If you know what they have in common, it will be a clue that you can change, so I recommend you to read it carefully without rushing.

So I write a blog about how to change people every day like this, how to make good relationships, and how to communicate well.

If you are interested, please also visit my past blog.

So today's story, "It was good!" If you say so, please share it with your friends.

See you later ✌️)