A word you shouldn't say to reduce the motivation of others

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Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who casually discourages the motivation of others.

This is probably said without being conscious of it at all, but the person who was told that is just a lot of noise, isn't it?

Well, give a hundred steps, if you're worried about the other person, you're not worried, you just casually spread negative news, it's really just an eyesore, isn't it?

For example, it's common when you get a job.

When I said, "I want to get this job in the future," he said, "Oh, that's right, I can't expect it in the future for 〇〇 reasons, so it's better not to do it."

I'm sure you're telling me the negative news you have for good, but to be clear, it's none of your business.

Because if everyone is told something like this, don't you think, "Well, I guess I'll quit after all?"

If you say that, I'll be worried.

So if the other person really quits, it's just a dream killer, isn't it?

It's just when the person in question is motivated, something he is interested in is born, and the motivation for work is coming out.

At that time, negative news is dripping and I don't support you.

There is no doubt that this is a person who is disliked.

In the world of coaching, I'll let you do it for the time being.

If even one thing that the other person is interested in comes out, you can fail, so start by letting them do it for the time being.

Then you'll understand a lot of things.

It's not suitable, I wonder if I can continue, or not.

That's how I gain a lot of experience.

Learn the reason for failure from failure, and accumulate successful experience from success.

Either way, only good things happen to me.

So, I'll say it again, when the person is motivated, or when he finds something he's interested in, "What will you do if he fails?" Or, "It's dangerous, so quit!" That's something you shouldn't do.

People have a lot of things engraved in their hearts by getting injured, getting hurt, or being in danger, so that's why it becomes a living know-how.

I'm there once in a while, but "What if I die!" Or, "Can you say the same thing to your family!" And so.

Well, to be honest, if the person himself wants it, it's unavoidable.

Even if you fail and have debt, you can manage if you live, and even if you fail and lose your life, people will die someday.

Even if you have an accident and suddenly break up due to force majeure, there will be tens of thousands in the world if you look for it.

That's why, if you want to restrain that person and not let him out of the house, you wouldn't do such a thing, usually.

Yes, so let's cherish the life we have today, let's be grateful that we were able to spend today in good health, and let's be grateful that we were able to meet our loved ones at home again today.

There is a Latin word called Mementomori.

This means "Let's be conscious of death", but everyone doesn't know what will happen tomorrow.

That's why I'm saying let's live today carefully, but there is a place that connects a little with today's theme.

I might die tomorrow, and what are you going to do if you don't live hard today?

I wonder if it's like that.

What do people think when they die? There was a person who took the statistics.

The first place is, "I should have tried more things."

Or, if there are many people who regret the dream they gave up a long time ago or that they should have challenged that dream.

Don't you feel like you understand this?

Yes, so even if you are worried about the other person, it seems that it is better to refrain from challenging people and reducing their motivation as much as possible.

Rather than that, you should support it.

People also have the ability to avoid crises, so I understand how they feel.

But it also has such disadvantages that sometimes destroy the potential of people.

Even though it's a family, it's almost impossible for you to control other people's lives.

If you do that, the only way is to get antipathy and make your relationship worse, right?

That's why I think that a word that reduces people's motivation often creates disadvantages, so I recommend you to refrain from it as much as possible.

If you can honestly support people's dreams and what they want to do, I'm sure there will be more people who can live happily.

If the number of people who can live happily increases, I think it will be a little easier to live in this current society.

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