The tragic end that awaits those who continue to evaluate people.

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Well, today I will talk about "the tragic end that awaits for people who continue to evaluate people."

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How about you all?

Don't you appreciate others a lot?

Don't you think or say things like "〇〇-chan had better grades" or "〇〇-kun was worse than you" or "〇〇-chan doesn't move at all even though I'm working hard"?

You can put this in your mouth separately.

Isn't it surprising?

Usually, "Don't put it in your mouth! You're going to be told that the corner stands, right?

But it's different.

There are also things that are good for your body.

That's because putting it in your mouth will relieve stress.

But when it comes to putting it out, if you put it out in a place that is a little out of sight, if you don't feel like confronting that person, somehow, "I wonder if I won't lose?" I think so.

Then, "Do you affirm the whole thing itself to evaluate others?" When it is said, it's also a little different, and in fact, rather, "Isn't it more profitable not to evaluate it?" I think so.

Because you've come to understand when you've deepened the idea of evaluating.

Evaluating means comparing yourself and others every time, right?

In order to evaluate, you first need to have a standard, and I think that standard is usually yourself.

So, compared to your ability and the amount of tasks you have done, how about that of others? That's what we tend to talk about.

If you have more tasks than people, in most cases, you will point out things that you can't do, such as "that person doesn't work" or "don't move", and on the other hand, if the amount of tasks is small, "I can't do it like that person" or "To myself" It's impossible" or something like that, you start to look down on yourself.

Well, either way, it's not good for my mental health.

Moreover, if you compare yourself with others, in the end, you are devoting your brain capacity to think about others.

If it's true, if you focus on what's in front of you, you might get a better performance.

It's just that you evaluate people as "not like that, it's not like this", that's how much you're doing your brain performance to others.

If you think about it that way, isn't it a waste?

I can bring out a better performance, but I can't believe I'm going to drop it.

It's exactly in a state of "I'm not serious yet."

That's why today's conclusion.

The tragic end that waits for people who continue to evaluate people is a status quo maintainer who does not show growth at all.

By the way, please note that if you evaluate people and make fun of them or say things that make you look down on yourself, there will be no people around you.

Because people have the property of wanting to stay away from the negative environment.

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