A sweet trap for people with a too serious personality.

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Sai&Co.Sai&Co. of WAKU Chare Labo It is.

Well, today I'm going to talk about "the sweet trap that people with too serious personalities fall into."

But before that, please.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

I would like to ask everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you, someone who is too serious?

Well, originally, being serious is a good thing, but if it passes, it will be a little troublesome, that's the story.

That's because serious is originally an image of going straight ahead, doing the right thing, and if there is one justice, you will go straight towards it, right?

This is actually bad.

Is it good?

Going straight means that you can only see one of them, right?

That means there is a possibility that you can't see the people around you, or you dare not to see it.

This is dangerous.

If you can't see the people around you, you only believe in yourself and push forward.

It's easy to be everything you believe in, and you don't care what others say.

I just select only the information I want and don't try to incorporate opposing opinions.

It's easy to fall into this pattern of thinking and behavior.

Right? ?

This is dangerous, right?

Because, even if it's obviously going in the wrong direction, you won't notice it.

From others, "No, no, that's strange!" Even if you say, "That's not true!" The more you push back, the more people have the power of assumptions.

After all, this phenomenon is also related to the mechanism and psychological effects of the human brain, and the success and failure of the person may be separated by whether they notice it or not.

Moreover, this phenomenon, the more people who are close to you say, in fact, there is also a habit that makes it easier for those who are told to create doubts.

It's deeply related to the sense of distance in my heart, but it gets longer and longer if I talk about it that much, so I'll talk about this story again, but in the end, I can't believe in others other than myself, and I'm going to the wrong way. By the way, what is the destination? That said, of course, there is "there is only a rough future."

From the perspective of others, I'm giving advice because I think it's good, but the person in question doesn't want to listen at all.

If you repeat it, most people will give up from the middle and stop saying anything.

If that happens, it's already fatal, and there are fewer people who really pay attention to the end and give advice, but from the person in question, the more people who are close to the relationship, the more suspicious they are, so they will stay until the end for the rest of their lives. That word of hard advice sounds like advice coming from envy and jealousy, and the so-called terminal state, there is no way to give hands.

In the end, in the end, what I've been doing has failed, and it became irreparable, and the relationships around me, the people who supported me and the people who adored me until then also left, and in the end, I was left alone ...

What's going to happen?

So, in order not to be like that, I recommend that people who think "I'm a little too serious" or are told by people that "You're always serious" should be especially careful and work on what you are passionate about now.

So how was it, today's story.

Wasn't it an experience that you felt unexpectedly familiar?

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