How to make collaborators.

Hello, everyone.

Sai&Co.Sai&Co. of WAKU Chare Labo It is.

Well, today I will talk about "how to make a collaborator" while brushing up my past blog.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

Today's schedule was to work half a day, and I was planning to go home in the afternoon.

But on the day, everything planned changed, and in the end I left 2 hours after the scheduled time.

Well, I didn't have anything special important to do, so I didn't have any trouble even if I was late to go home.

However, what surprised me was the change in the schedule.

There were originally about two big plans, but the start time of the first schedule was greatly delayed, and then the second schedule was that the start time was accelerated, and eventually each other's schedules overlapped ...

It's generally called booking.

Moreover, it's convenient for the other party.

The two errands were free for about 3 hours in advance, but if you look at it today, those 3 hours will be filled in no time, and as a result, it will overlap, "What will you do?" That's what happened.

I don't think the other party will offend you, but "Is it okay?" I was asked, and both of them are requirements that can't be changed on other days, and "It's no good." It's hard to say, and in the end, there was nothing I could do, so I decided to ask for the two eyes on time...

(Is there anyone who has experienced the same thing? I think there are quite a few of them. Because there are many Japanese people who have grown up with compromise, so they respect the other person's opinion rather than their own opinion. It's not that it's bad, but that's why I can't express my opinion easily, and I think, "Well, I should put up with it." Me too, but if you think about it now, at this time clearly, "It's no good." Speaking of which, it's a good story in the first place. That way, I would have been able to do my schedule carefully and precisely with a free time allocation, and I should have been able to leave the company as scheduled. In the first place, if it is a requirement that is beneficial to each other, there is almost no such thing that it can not be changed, and even if the story is broken because it can not be changed, it means that there was no connection, so you just need to change the output to another It is about. If you have the same specifications as your partner's specifications, you are not the only one person, including people and groups. However, this way of thinking is just an early revival method when you are rejected by someone who thought that there was only this person, so please do not misunderstand the meaning. After that, it's how to prioritize. If you compare it to the contents of the blog I gave you this time, the tasks that must be fulfilled are as follows. 1 Responding to the second errand. 2 That I'm going home in the afternoon. When comparing these two, if you decide which one to prioritize, the subsequent scenario will change, and you can easily decide the path. However, most Japanese give priority to 1 over 2. But when I look at this overseas, there are unexpectedly more than 2 people. Surprising, isn't it? Japanese people have a too strong sense of responsibility for work, so there are many people who choose 1, and that's why there are even people whose worries about work do not disappear at all. So, it means that it's too strong.)

When everything was over and I looked back, I thought, "My schedule has changed, and there are things that overlap helplessly," and what I felt most was grateful, helpful, and strange about the existence of collaborators.

I didn't have a detailed meeting in advance, and I didn't contact you frequently and ask for cooperation, but the people around me adjusted the time to the people concerned like me.

Did he look too impatient?

I understood what I said as if I was talking to myself, and when I got a call from the other party, I was telling you about our situation, or I was talking to the other party who came early, and in a very skillful way of adjustment, "I want you to help me." I didn't say it directly, I didn't complain to myself, and I didn't work particularly hard, but I guess there will be people who will naturally understand the atmosphere of the place and always cooperate with me🙄.

I felt that I was not alone, and I was somewhat relieved.

(This phenomenon did not happen because of one thing, but because multiple conditions overlapped, which could have occurred. In other words, I was in a hurry, I was talking to myself, I was not aware of it, but I was probably working hard, and there were many people with the personality of the people I was looking around me as an aid type. Because all these things overlapped, in a case like this, I think I moved people's hearts, who took the initiative to help from the other party even if I didn't ask.)

See you later✌️

(So how was it, today's story? In order to move people, I wonder if it's easier to get collaborators if you move yourself, try, show your hard feelings, and get muddy. Well, I write about various blogs such as how to move people every day like this, how to build smooth relationships, and how to communicate without mistakes. So if you are interested, please visit my blog in the past. I'm also waiting for your questions. Please register on the official LINE. So, finally, today's story, "It was good!" If you say so, please share it with your friends. See you later ✌️)