The psychology of people who repeatedly utter words of consent and empathy.

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Well, today I will talk about "the psychology of people who repeatedly say words of agreement and empathy".

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So that's the main topic.

First of all, I would like to ask everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

People who repeatedly say "That's right" or "I see" or "I understand, I understand".

Don't you feel uncomfortable with these words repeatedly?

That's because these words are originally all words that express consent and empathy, so it should sound comfortable, but for some reason, it gets a little annoying when it comes out repeatedly, and if anything, it's really "Does it understand my feelings?" It also makes me feel uncomfortable.

Then the reason why this happens is that there is a possibility that people who say a lot of words have not listened to the other person all the time.

Don't you have it sometimes?

People who say "That's right" at a strange timing.

"Why don't you get in at that time? I think there are times when you feel that it's hard to talk, but this is because you don't listen to the other person properly.

For example, it's the same as when you jump a long rope, like looking at the timing of the rope turning around and going inside, it's like looking at the flow of the other person's conversation, feeling the moment of interruption and inserting.

Then, of course, in order to measure the timing, you can't measure the other person's conversation unless you listen carefully, and if you can't do it, you don't listen to people very seriously.

Moreover, these people are probably thinking about what to say next, or on the contrary, they are not thinking about anything, but the other person is saying something, and there is a possibility that they are only thinking about "Let's get together for the time being".

In the sense of "I understand what you say," the words "I understand" and "yes" that should be expressed are meaningless at all if they are repeatedly expressed, and rather, if you only think about yourself It means that it will also cause you to be seen through.

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