When you want someone to help you, you should dare to create a gap.

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Well, today I'm going to explain "If you want someone to help you, you should dare to create a gap".

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Well everyone.

How about you?

Whether you're working alone, working, doing housework, or preparing for an event at school, anything is fine.

Don't you have times when you want someone to help you?

But it's hard to say "help me" in the middle of the day.

Have you ever secretly thought to yourself, "Would someone like to help me?"

Today, for those who really want help but can't bring themselves to say, "Help me," how can I get them to do so? Do you want me to come help you? I will explain how to.

So, let me start with the conclusion.

It is to dare to create a gap.​

Please imagine what this means.

For example, someone who does their job perfectly.

Can you look at someone like that and say, "Can I help you?"

Most people probably can't say that.

Because it's perfect.

It's so perfect that I can't help it.

You might get in the way by lending a hand in return, right?

If so, I'm sure you'll leave it alone because you're watching from the side or you don't feel the need to help.

No one wants to help with this.

That's why I dare to create a gap.

By creating a gap, you make them aware that there is a space to show the gap to the other party and help them.

Then, as soon as the other person finds an opportunity, they will naturally ask, "Is there anything I can help you with?" I'm going to be able to do it.

All you have to do is answer the question honestly.
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Additionally, the trick to making this method more successful is to find gaps.

It's no good if it's a plain gap that you don't understand.​

It's no good if it's not a gap that you can understand.

In percentage terms, it's about a 3 out of 10 gap.

If you don't mind being a bit of a clumsy child, you can raise it to 4, but if you can do your job but also want people's help, around 3 would be better.

If you raise the gap level too much, you'll just become a ``bad guy who can't work''.

That's why today I've been talking about ``If you want someone to help you, you should dare to create a gap''.

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