The true meaning of "I decide my own life".

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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "the true meaning of "I decide my own life"."

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Now is the main topic.

According to the theme, if you don't have your own axis (belief) firmly, even if you hear it from people, you will believe it, so should you go there right away? Or, should I go this way? Or, don't you get lost in the way you should go?

"It's easier that way!" Or, if you're a person who decides while thinking, "I don't know well" or "I don't care either way", that's fine, but if you find something you want to do, "That's no good!" I realized that.

(In my case, how to find what I wanted to do was studying. I studied a wide range of fields such as books, YouTube videos, lectures and seminars. Then I naturally understood clearly what I wanted to do, and I was able to narrow it down. Among them, the axis is self-development, mindset, and mindfulness? If this axis of the heart is firm, it won't shake. No matter what happens, "What should I do? What should I do?" I don't get lost anymore. So if you can't find what you want to do. If anyone is interested in how to find me, please send me a message. I'll give you a hint on how to find what you want to do. It's free. If I say ... will it sound like a lie?)

However, I also had it before.

I didn't have my own thoughts, and I was working as people said...

I mean, I didn't think too much about anything...

He was a person who only thought, "I'll be able to do something about it," and he was relatively easy to be swept away.

But now I've been able to find what I want to do, and I'm continuing as much as I can do for it.

(So, it's been a year and a half since I've continued. The results are not very fruitful, but we will continue to do so. Until you succeed.)

What I wanted to tell you is that if you don't have your own axis, of course, "If you don't listen to someone, you can't move."

In other words, it means that you are being moved by others.

To put it bluntly, it is also a person who is good at cooperation, not to come out, understand the other person's feelings, but after all, it's my life, so I don't want to live with other people's opinions.

It's not that I don't listen to people's opinions at all, but I don't want to live a life created by others.

I think so.

Certainly, some people have lived for people.

Various historical figures such as Mother Teresa, Nightingale, and Hideyo Noguchi work for people, live for people, and die.

(When I wrote this blog, I introduced "people who lived for people" with historical figures as an example, but I just read this and was surprised, but the meaning was completely different. Because Mother Teresa and Nightingale are certainly people who lived for people rather than for themselves. But it wasn't that they only listened to what others said, but they were people who had their own beliefs firmly. Otherwise, you can't risk your life for people until the end, normally. I'm embarrassed because it seems like I was talking about something that the focus was out of focus....)

I'm also an expert now, so I want to be a person who moves for people, but there are times when I can't control it because I can't control it.

In other words, you want to move for yourself.

It seems to say something really formal, but it's against the professional code of ethics.

(No, really, I was immature about a year ago. I'm embarrassed to read it even now. It's completely out of focus. " I'm thinking about "moving for yourself" and "moving for people" in the same areo. This sounds like an opposite word as a word, but its meaning is different. Have you noticed? Because it is a word that holds the formula of "A because B" that you can move for people only after you move for yourself. In other words, it was not a comparison, but a relationship between cause and effect.)

So I won't say absolutely, but at least as a way of thinking, I think you will definitely be happier if you walk your own life instead of walking on someone else's life.

(The way of thinking written here still doesn't change. It's certainly easy to live by listening to what people say, but it's not your own life, it's living someone else's life. Well, listening to what people say is what you decided in the end, but whose life does your life belong to? In other words, it's yours, isn't it? That's why you can decide a lot of things. If that's the case, wouldn't it be happier if you prioritize what you say, not what people say? I want to eliminate troublesome and painful things as much as possible and live happily. I know a lot of ways to be a hint, so if you are interested, please contact us. It would be helpful if you could use my official LINE for consultation. I will post my LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog.)

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