Weapons and real kindness that delicate people have.

Hello everyone.

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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "weapons and real kindness that delicate people have".

First of all, if you say "it was good" about today's story, please share it😁

Let's get down to business.

I'm quite worried when even a few people enter the corner of my field of vision.

(I think I have the temperament of HSP myself. However, I'm not worried at all. Rather, I understand the goodness of HSP and make the most of its benefits. So I think it's a gift that my parents and the environment so far gave me. By the way, if you are in trouble with HSP, please contact me once. I would like to tell you the know-how that I can live without worrying about it. If you don't mind, please register as a friend from my official LINE and send me a message. I'll put my LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog.)

That doesn't mean I'm going to say anything, but "I wonder if I'm in trouble?" When I'm doing gestures, I just want to talk to you.

Even if you are suspicious or bothered, if you seem to be in trouble for the time being, try to talk to them, and if you are refused, or if it seems useless, it's like "it's okay".

(This is the merit of HSP.) I'll give you a little hint. Some people are worried about the eyes around them, but in fact, this means that the other person is not looking at themselves, but that they are looking at the other person. But I have the illusion that the people around me are looking at me because of my own selfish assumptions. I'm sorry that the explanation around here got messy due to the number of characters, but that's really true. So, as a way to get along well with HSP, we need to change this assumption. One more thing. If this assumption changes, you can see the surroundings well, that is, you can be a person with a good ability to grasp space, so it's still too early for HSP temperaments to give up.)

But sometimes I wonder if it's really good for that person.

If you call out and help them right away, you will feel like you'll stop the possibility of self-growth that the person has, even if you can easily help with the problem that you spend time on your own. I will.

So even if I don't know, I wait until the last minute, and I try to help you when I still don't seem to be able to do anything or after I start calling for help.

(This belief has not changed yet.) If you really think about that person, I will teach you how to do it yourself rather than helping him easily. I think it's really kind of me. As an example, it often comes up, but the president of the conveyor belt sushi chain Sushizanmai went to Somalia and taught pirates how to catch fish and stopped the pirates. I think this is also self-reliance support. Until now, I made a living by stealing people's things, but I started to catch fish, sell them, and make a living. This is a great rehabilitation, and I was able to take it to a place where I could make my own money and live, so I think it's a typical good example.)

It may be mean from another person's point of view, but if you really think about that person, it's kind of comfortable for me to see if I can do it until the last minute and then "hand out only when I can't do it".

(Because it is now, it is a society that is ahead of making money, so there are many models that do people's troublesome places instead. However, I also use a lot of computers and cars, so I can't say that I'm too bossy, but I'm trying not to stop that person's growth easily.)

So, how was this story today?

I think that each person has a belief in thinking about "for people".

So I don't want to impose my beliefs on anyone that I told you today.

For example, I would appreciate it if you could think of it as "there is also such a way of thinking."

That's why if you say "it was good" about today's story, I would like you to introduce and share it with your friends, brothers, and people at the company.

See you later✌️