It's more effective to say thank you directly.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "It's more effective to say thank you directly."

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Well, everyone.

Have you ever thought about how to thank you?

There are surprisingly few people who are too conscious of this way of thanking, aren't there?

Is it my assumption?

If you are properly conscious, there is nothing to say anymore, but if there is anyone who is not conscious of it, please read this blog once and use it to look back.

So, about that content, first of all, there are several ways to thank you, right?

For example, I think there are several other things, such as saying it on the phone, telling it by e-mail, or saying thank you in person, but in which order is it easier for the other person to convey your feelings?

Since I was able to have contact with the other party, which one is more effective to make it an opportunity to shorten the distance?

Do you know?

Actually, the best thing about this is that it's good to meet in person, look at the other person's face, smile, and say thank you.

Well, it may be natural, but I'm not very conscious of this, and I tend to do it by e-mail or phone because I'm busy, but the best thing is face-to-face thanks.

Of course, it depends on the amount of your task and the physical distance with the other party, but for example, let's say you move a distance of 100 km to meet the other person just to say thank you.

It seems to be annoying at first glance, but from the other party's point of view, "He moved as far as 100 km just by thanking me. For myself. I thought, "I have to give something back again," or "I'm sorry to bother to thank you. It's normal to think that this person is for me..."

In other words, you can imprint lending and indebtedness to the other party.

Again, it is not a good way to do it to everyone, so it depends on the way of thinking of the person who uses this method to choose which method for whom, but if you use this method, you can definitely get closer to the sense of distance with the other party.

However, there are also points to be aware of.

When the other party shows a rejective attitude, you have to refrain a little.

At a time like this, the level of nuisance is rising, so if you do the same thing, it will have the opposite effect, so in such a case, you have to stop for a while.

Well, by the way, do you know how to thank the second and third most effective?

This is the order of phone calls and emails.

In more detail, there are video calls, chats, letters, etc., but today, if you talk roughly and roughly without dividing it into details, it looks like this.

People say, "Which sense do you use to input information?" If you think about it, the answer will come out soon, but 90% are eyes and ears.

Other senses of catching information are skin, smell, and taste, but the more you use these five senses, the more you can accurately catch more detailed information.

The more you use these five senses, the more you use them.

In other words, if you incorporate a way to use more of these five senses when expressing gratitude, it will be easier for the other party to be inputted.

The best way is to "thank you in person."

And then it comes with a phone call and an email.

When you think about the mechanism like this, don't you think, "I see?"

So, when you say thank you to an important person, why don't you try a little hard to meet him in person, hold your hand if possible, smile, raise the tone of your voice and say thank you?

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