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Let's make it so that you can choose whether you can get along with people or not.

Hello, everyone.

Sai & Co. WAKU Chare Labo's Sai & Co. It is.

Well, today, I'm going to talk about "Let's make choices that you can get along with people or don't have to do" while brushing up my past blog.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If that's the way, please share it😁

Then it's the main topic.

Isn't there a time when you want to sell yourself to this person?

For work, love, making friends, etc., in each place, "I want to get along with this person!" You have something to think about, don't you?

(That said, of course, I think there are people who like one person.

It's not a very recommended method for such people, but as long as you don't live a self-sufficient and hermit deep in the mountains, everyone lives with the benefit of someone.

I'm saying cool things, but there are very few people who live like that.

I think many of them live in coexistence with people.

So I stubbornly said, "I don't get along with anyone!" It's good to say that, but I want you to listen to my words a little bit.

That is to say, in the future, technology will develop due to the spread of the Internet, and people's perspectives will change globally.

Moreover, if the high-speed communication network is established, the change in the world will be faster, various cultures will be born in various fields, and a new climate will take root and disappear repeatedly.

In other words, the world changes at a speed far beyond the ability of people to catch up with change, so it will be a truly unpredictable world.

Then, if you narrow down your way of life to "this one", you will be swallowed up by the tide of change and you will live a difficult life, so please read this blog to the end once and live even if you don't get along with people If you know both how to do it and how to live while getting along with people, and make it possible to choose when it is convenient for you, it will be easier to live in the future.

I repeat.

After all, now is an unpredictable time for VUCA.)

In such a case, this is the recommended method.

Exactly!!︎

It means that "the end of the conversation ends with your turn."

This alone is fine.

The same can be said by phone, email, or chat.

If it ends with the opponent's turn, what he said will be the most impressive in the opponent's mind, and what the person said, that is, what he was talking just before the last conversation, will be impressed.

There are exceptions, but the impression is that I remember the last thing I received.

(If it's an email or chat, you can look back, so you don't have to stubbornly end your turn, but there are people who don't look back at emails, etc.

So, in the worst case, if you think about not looking back, it would be a good idea to end the story with your turn as much as possible.)

So, if you say it, if you finish with the opponent's turn, the conversation will end with self-containedness.

It means that it's close to this feeling.

Moreover, it's a little troublesome, but this impression operation, the effect does not appear once or twice.

Until the other person calls out to you when you meet someone somewhere, it will be easier to finish the conversation on this turn over and over again, and it will be easier later.

If you do that, you will leave yourself deeply in the impression of the other person, so please try using it.

See you later✌️

(Well, how was it, today's story?

At first, I made a very forceful recommendation, but I think those who read it to the end probably convinced me.

It seems tedy, but now it's the era of VUCA.

No matter which way the world changes, it would be very easy if you could follow that direction in your way of life, right?

If that's the case, it's much easier to live than when you don't have one.

So I recommend that you incorporate diversity in your way of life.

So if you say that today's story was good, please share it with your friends.

Finally, I also write about various other know-hows to live a comfortable life on my blog.

Also, I'm making an official LINE.

We are waiting for your registration.

See you later✌️)

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