A miserable end waiting for a person who makes a self-judgment without understanding the other person's intentions

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Well, today I will talk about "the tragic end waiting for those who judge themselves without understanding the other person's intentions".

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who completely ignores what the other party is thinking, judges selfishly and takes action.

Unexpectedly, it's in every community, isn't it?

I guess it's about 10% to 20% after all.

Because the most obvious example of the community you belong to is the company, isn't it?

Also, if you look at the school, the classroom of learning, the hobby circle, and if you look at it even narrower, the family is also like that.

So, almost all of these people have met at least once, and I've seen and heard of them.

If there is still someone you don't notice, please look around carefully and observe it.

Because I'm here.

If you still don't notice, please ask someone close to you.

"Is there someone like this?" It's like that.

If you still don't know, that's enough.

It doesn't make sense to go deeper than that, such a person is walking in a world completely unrelated to today's theme, so please stop reading today's blog any more, do what you like immediately, and use your time.

That way, you can have a lot of fun in your life.

So, I was so obsessed that I didn't understand it myself, but I'll go back to the main topic from here.

Well, in the main topic, it was about people who don't understand the other person's intentions, right?

That said, it's difficult to draw it firmly and close to perfect, so I don't attach much importance to that, but there are many people who are not good at being judged and acting on their own. Is it?

In other words, from this side, you will be swayed by the other party.

I think most of the people who have received post-war Japanese education in particular are not good at it.

First of all, it's not 100% wrong, but before you move with your own judgment, don't you want me to listen to it once for the time being?

It's different from things that don't affect you too much, apart from important scenes of work or schoolwork, or things that are related to your life.

However, "What are you going to do with that judgment?" I think there is a question, but I think it will be difficult to realize if you deepen your relationship with the other person and don't know the other person's habits, characteristics, and way of thinking.

Most people have a certain habit.

In thinking and in action.

This is also a story that it will happen due to the structure of the brain, but for example, conservative people will have a way of thinking and behavior to protect themselves at any time, and innovative people will change more and more like this, and for a long time. If you get along with each other, you will eventually grasp the habits and patterns of that way of thinking.

Because it's the same every time.

No, but I'm going to understand.

It's inside, people who don't know what they're thinking.

There are many people like this who are quite genius, but for such people, they also need to change their behavior according to their way of thinking at that time, so is it quite difficult for those who are receiving normal education, after all post-war education as it is? Maybe, I'll follow you.

Your thoughts change in seconds, so it's normal that what you say in the morning is different from what you say at noon.

So, I tried to touch a little on people's nature from people's habits, personality, and brain building, what do you think?

Somehow, is this what people are like? Did you get it?

Well, the story has shifted again, so I'll put it back.

That's why people who act on their own with their own judgment can't do what they want, so it's quite stressful.

In other words, the destination of such a person is that they will be disliked after all.

You may be told bad things behind your back, you may be able to avoid it a little, or you may be pointed out directly, but at such times, the other person often doesn't come to mind.

"Eh? What's wrong?" "Did you do something wrong?" I only think about it, and if you hit someone with a rough teme, you will be upset, and it's quite troublesome.

So, for those who have these habits, first understand your own characteristics, and then say, "This is me!" I recommend that you remove the slightly stiff image of yourself, make a margin to give it to others, and try to match it to the other person.

That way, you can live your life more easily.

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