The feeling of expecting things that don't change is the beginning of misfortune.

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Today, I will talk about "The feeling of expecting things that will not change is the beginning of unhappiness".

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Well, everyone.

Have you all said it at least once?

When I met my old friends and acquaintances after a long time, I said, "Wow, it's been a long time! I said, "It hasn't changed at all."

This line "It hasn't changed at all", but as the word says, it's the same as in the past, isn't it?

But how is it actually?

Let's say it's been decades.

Then, there's no way it hasn't really changed.

There is experience during that time, the appearance is getting older, and the content of the story changes as the age changes.

What about your child's career path, how are you taking care of your parents, how are you feeling recently?

But that doesn't seem to have changed, so it's just like that time.

What do you think?

Doesn't this feel strange?

Actually, it should have changed, but if it hasn't changed, don't you feel quite dangerous?

Well, it's true that the meaning of the line "It hasn't changed at all" includes greetings, social words, and seemingly compliments, but even so, if you think about it again like this, it's a rather scary word. That's right.

What's more.

Some people are caught up in the curse of this word just after hearing this word.

That is to say, take "It hasn't changed at all" as it is, and think about "Oh, it's better for me not to change" or "I can't change" or "I can't change", and the brain has converted it on its own, and the one who doesn't change. There are times when I go.

What will happen if that happens?

You already know the answer, right?

That's right, it really won't change.

In other words, if you are yourself as it is, you will misunderstand that you will be accepted by the people around you and stop growing.

Well, some people live happily even if they don't really grow up, but it seems that people are basically creatures that can grow to the end.

It seems that if the brain and body do not stop learning and training, there will be a growth fee forever.

Then, with the word "It doesn't change at all," if there is something that stops people's growth without permission, this is quite close to a crime.

Moreover, whether you know this or not, if you talk easily, it means that you don't want people to grow somewhere in your heart, so if you turn it over, you don't want to grow either.

I just said, "I want to stay as I am, so you stay as you are."

It's much safer and reassuring if you're not alone, but also with you.

But in the end, you will stop growing and miss the chance to be happy.

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