Tips for continuing group activities for a long time and how to protect your mental health when you break up.

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It's easy to think that group activities will continue for a long time, but it's quite difficult if you try it unexpectedly.

Because as you keep doing it, it's always a matter of difference in direction, personality doesn't match, and money problems.

Well, I don't know.

If you stay together all day, all day, it's the same for both husband and wife.

There's no way that only fun things happen when you're in good shape, so there are times when you're not feeling well and get irritated.

If you see the unpleasantness of other members at such a time, it's the limit of patience.

I guess that's how they get along.

Moreover, the composition of the group, the group that does not disband immediately is usually designed to work well, for example, one is a leader, the other is a person who is harmonious and supports everyone, and the rest is intelligent and alone. It's like there are people who like behavior, goofy and curious, and healing kind people ... and it's a long-lasting group that doesn't have a personality, and it's such a role.

But even so, from the middle of the activity, there will be a moment when the gears will not mesh.

That's the moment I started working one by one.

Some people may be comfortable with one person, or because what they want to do differently from everyone else, or maybe they were aiming to work alone from the beginning.

Well, no matter what the reason, in the end, the number of activities alone will increase more and more like this.

What if that happens?

This time, there will be members who don't like it when they see that solo action.

First of all, there will be a collision, right?

In addition, some members are envious of acting alone, and they come to think, "I want to do the same."

Well, what if it looks like this?

If it's like this anymore, you don't know what to do, do you?

Everyone thinks differently, so it's quite difficult to get it back now.

It's like that, no matter how successful the group is, it almost always goes through this kind of path.

Then how can I continue group activities for a long time? That's what I mean, but I think it's all about throwing away what you want to do.

I'm going to push myself to death and be altruistic until the end.

If you do that, everyone will put others first, so I'm sure that group can survive.

However, people grow up, so by knowing various unknown worlds, there are more and more things you want to experience, and it's natural that you want to do that or do this.

Then, if you know this ending and how to make use of it, in the end, in the end, the group will be dissolved, so if you keep it in your heart as an ending that will come someday, even if the time comes, "Oh, at that time I can stop it as much as "I wonder if it's here."

In other words, it means to prepare your mind.

If you can bring mental to this state, you can minimize the mental damage even if the time comes, so if you are going to do group activities from now on, please keep in mind that "There is a breakup" ahead. I think that if you keep it, you can minimize the mental damage to yourself.

So how was it? Today's story.

The theme was a somewhat negative thing called group dissolution, but for those who are thinking, "I wonder if I'm going to work from now on," or for those who are doing activities but can't get results, "What are you saying, I'll do my best from now on. That's when you can think of such a thing!" It may have been such a content, but for those who are actually active or are trying to do their best from now on, it is also a blind spot that is a side that is in front of the thing in front of you.

So if there is someone who says, "I'm mentally weak," I recommend that you protect your mental health alone.

Well, I sometimes blog about how to stabilize my mental health every day like this.

If you are interested, please come and visit my past blog once.

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