A miserable end waiting for people who come and move things without asking for it.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for people who come without asking and proceed with things without asking."

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Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who comes without permission and proceeds with things even though he doesn't ask for it.

"Eh? Is there such a person?" If you were wondering, in fact, in any community, there are always one or two people.

Or if you make it a percentage, isn't there about 1 to 20%?

"No, no, no, there is no one with such a thick nerve!" There are more suspicious people, actually, people with this kind of personality.

If you are such a person, please look around carefully and observe it.

I just don't notice it, but it's really close to me.

You've been saying that for a long time, haven't you?

With a meddly aunt.

Well, it's not good to decide only for your aunt, but you can find an arranged marriage partner even though people don't ask you to, "You, take this home!" Saying that, trying to bring back things you don't want, it's not limited to aunts, but if you don't be careful, it will be ridiculous later.

That's why, first of all, at the time of starting to do it without permission, isn't it quite out?

"Eh? What? What? What?" While I'm saying that, I'm going to move forward, and it's as if I'm not doing anything, and it's hard for me to do this.

Things will go as the person wants, and you won't be able to handle it, or before that, the relationship is rattling.

I won't be able to get it back.

The first thing you have to think about here is that there is a territory that people really don't want to enter, for others, parents and siblings.

It's like entering that territory with your feet, isn't it?

The fact that you come on your own and do it in your own way.

In other words, since the other party has not given permission, they will come without permission in that state and be done this and that, and if you do something like this, most people will not accept it.

But the person in question doesn't notice that.

This is surprisingly a lot.

People who don't notice.

Such people really have a single-minded feeling that "I'm sure the other person is also being saved" with just their own assumptions, and they do too much.

It's really a waste of kindness.

If you use it a little better, even such a person can change into a person who is very useful.

So, if you come this far, you already know, don't you?

Even though you didn't ask for it, you will come and proceed with things without asking, and the miserable end of waiting for people who seem to appear in comics and dramas will eventually be disliked.

But again, the person in question often doesn't notice even if he is disliked.

That's why it doesn't decrease, these people.

So, how do you deal with these people? But, of course, it means to clearly say NO.

It means to tell them properly that "I don't want you to do it."

Strangely enough, if you tell me this and that more than you think, they will accept it obediently.

Like a lie.

I've been thinking about what to do if I hurt you or what to do if I make you angry.

But, by any chance, if you still don't understand, or if you resent the fact that you refused, that person will surely have a dark side personality, so the one who runs away will win.

I recommend that you try not to corner or compete with it.

I'm sure there will be trouble for a long time.

People with dark personalities are unexpectedly persistent and have roots for a long time.

Also, when you say NO, please avoid saying it hard, saying it to the other person, or denying the other person's personality.

If you do this, even ordinary people will get angry, and they will take root.

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