People who say they understand but don't actually understand.

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I'm going to talk about "people who say they understand but don't actually understand".

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Well, everyone.

I will reveal one today.

Although it is not a story like the YouTuber MP who is currently causing a stir in the world, I often use "I understand. I understand."

It is one of the communication skills to shorten the distance with the other person, and it expresses that you agree or agree with what you say.

It's not like I'm taking the other person lightly, it's the same with anything, but the closer you get to the other person, the more useful you will be in a lot of situations.

But it would be a lie if I said that I have a little ulterior motive, so there is a truth.

After all, when you make a mistake, you think about how to cover it, so there is also the meaning of taking out insurance.

If you get along well, you won't be blamed for a little mistake.

When you want to advance things to your advantage.

It's one of those skills that you can use at work.

​But in reality, even though I say "I understand!", I don't really know.

There are things I don't understand at all, and on the contrary, there are parts that I understand a little bit, but after all, pain, suffering, and happiness are different depending on the person, so I wonder if it's okay to say "I understand". There are times when I feel

Especially in serious situations.​

For example, when I heard that my leg was broken.

I've never broken a bone myself, so I don't know what it feels like to have one.

But almost all people say that it hurts where they broke.

But I don't understand the pain.

As for what to do in such a case, I will use the experiences of other people who have seen and heard so far, and if they say, "Bones hurt, don't they?"

If you think about it calmly, it's a pretty sloppy reaction.

However, there are almost no people who feel bad about being in tune with the other person, so the conversation flows smoothly without anyone having any doubts about it.

So, to come to today's conclusion, most of the people who say, "I know, I know," don't really understand at all.

To put it bluntly, it is to say that you are lying.

It's up to you whether you take this as a social comment or "Don't lie!", but at least I lightly say, "I understand. I understand."

I'm in the position of "a person who can't be trusted very much".

That's why today I've been talking about "people who say they understand but don't really understand".

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