The way that people who want to change themselves should do it and the thought of self-indulgence.

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Well, today, I will talk about "the way that people who want to change themselves should do and the thought of self-indulgence" while brushing up my blog in the past.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

I also like people who teach me things I don't know, but after all, I love talking to people who miss my expectations.

What do you do in a good way? What do you say? I'm very excited and excited to interact with people I can't imagine.

(It's very calming and reassuring to be with someone who thinks the same as you.

That's why most people can't get out of that group or relationships.

It's like a kind of addiction.

The reason why I want to do so is also obvious.

It's because I'm always nervous and fluffy, and if I'm worried and my heart is not here, I can't help but be anxious.

In other words, everyone is looking for a place where they can feel safe, and they need such a place.

But if you can't get out of that safe zone forever, you may get back and get in the way.

That's when I take a step out of myself.

When you want to grow yourself, "You can't be yourself until now!" When I realize that and I'm thinking about graduating from myself until then, it gets in the way.

Because, to be specific, it means to keep a distance from the people you've been dating so far.

It takes courage, doesn't it?

But on the other hand, if you're not prepared for that, you can't change people.)

"That's how you think!" I'm so excited that I'm so excited.

I just said today, "What are you going to say?" Or, "What are we going to do today?" Or, I'm looking forward to it.

I want to meet such a person every day, and I don't get tired of meeting him.

(I'll tell you at this time about a year and a half ago.

It's too much to say that I want to see you every day.

As with anything, even if you do something every day, eat or drink, it's the same, but when it comes to seeing you every day, it's honestly hard.

That's because my heart is shaken every day, so I feel like there is no time to rest.

So, if there is a day when you don't see each other for a whole day, it will be good for your heart, and if you meet every day, it's good when you are addicted to that person, but there are times when you get bored.

In a slightly difficult word, it's like a limit utility reduction [Genkai Koyo Teigen].

If that happens, meeting that person itself will be full, so I really want to leave, and if that happens, I won't be able to build a very good relationship anyway, so I shouldn't meet every day after all.)

On the contrary, those who finish saying things without thinking about schedule harmony and conservative will not be very interested and will not feel like talking.

(This is also an advice to myself a year and a half ago.

If you say something like this, you will be alone, and those who agree and sympathize with you are very valuable human resources.

People try to feel joy when they are recognized by others.

It's a so-called desire for approval.

Because of this, you can feel alive and satisfy yourself and feel happy.

So, sometimes you should be very grateful for the existence of people who agree with you even if you don't think about things, such as schedule harmony and conservative.)

I listen to what I hear, but I just don't lose my expression too much and just let the story flow ...

Then it's not amiable, so it's not really good.

But to be honest, even if I meet and talk to such a person, I feel like it's quite a waste of time.

However, I'm also an adult, so I don't say honest things to him, and there are times when I really need a relationship because of work, so I try to take time to talk to each other only when the other person talks to me.

(It's a very selfish way of thinking.

I'm embarrassed even if I read it myself now...

No one will come near me with this.

Even if you come closer, there will be only selfish people.)

Sometimes, there are people who go out of their way to look for a communication item to tell you right away, but if it's just a communication item, you can use LINE at all, or if you put a memo on the desk, it's easy, and you'll go out of your way to find out where you are. We don't have to, and I think we don't have to waste time on each other.

If you write so far, it will be a bad word, so you may not need to say it, but such people only seem to be busy themselves.

Still, "I'm busy. I'm busy." But it's a habit to say.

(There are people who are strange about how to use their time, right?

I still think about this.

I think it would be better to say that you are wasting time, or that you are working hard on purpose, or that you should use it for something different.

However, the interesting thing is that it is a habit of people, but there are actually only a few people who can divert the margin time gained by working efficiently into another productive work.

There are also surveys and studies to prove that, in other words, most people have a habit of taking unproductive actions even if they work hard to make time, and on the contrary, they can't take the next productive action.

It's also interesting to be like a person around here, isn't it?

However, if you know that you have such a habit, you will be able to control the time you are trying to use in vain, so it is a psychological effect that does not hurt to know. )

I couldn't sympathize at all, "That's right." I can only reply, but in my heart, "You're busy by yourself!" I think so.

Because of these things, I like people who are excited to talk anyway, and I'm conscious of being like that.

Of course, while folding silly chats.

See you later✌️

(So I read it to the end, but it's so embarrassing, "What are you saying!" That's the blog.

I want to delete it as it is.

It's such a bad work.

But this is also me in the past, so I'm going to take it head-on and think about it and look forward.

By the way, if you get a little closer to someone who is excited to talk, you don't realize it at all, and it's almost 0 points.

So how was today's story?

Today's brush-up has become a time to expose my stains and be driven by self-repense, but I hope I can help someone somewhere with this kind of story.

So today's story, "It was good!" If that's the way, please introduce it to your friends.

See you tomorrow.)