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The benefits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply.

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Sai & Co.WAKU This is Sai & Co. from Chare Lab.

So today

About "merits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply"

I will talk.

I haven't talked about anything yet,

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Well everyone,

About the benefits of getting to know yourself deeply

Have you ever thought about it?

actually

To get to know yourself deeply

There was a lot of merit.

So

The story I will tell you from now on

By using it consciously

I'm alive and I get a lot of money

Please try it.

Let's start with the benefits.

What is the merit of getting to know yourself deeply?

that is

It means "to deepen the relationship with the other party".

When I asked the answer,

Unexpectedly "That's it?"

It may have become, but

actually

This answer is

It can be used in various places.

For example

At work

The deeper you get along with your trading partners

Transactions can be done smoothly and

Even if you make a few mistakes

It's relatively easy to forgive.

How about in-house?

If you get to know your colleagues and boss

It also increases reliability and

Work is fast,

It will be easier for you to get ahead.​​​​​

What about romance?

Even if you just ask about the other person

When I'm not open, I don't tell you much.

At that time

I'm trying this method.

in short

I just listen to the other person

Instead of talking about small things

You start talking about yourself.

I have a personality like this

What do you like

What do you hate

I will tell you.

Then

To the other party

"I'm such a person"

It will also make you imagine

By talking about personality and likes and dislikes

There may be something in common.

At that time, the topic will expand.

But here is one,

There are some things to be aware of.

It is

Telling bragging stories or pretty heavy dark stories.

When you just talk about yourself

Riding pretty well

I talked about old bragging stories

To get to know you deeply

"No, it's heavy"

There are people who talk darkly.

But this,

Most people

I'm not interested in the bragging stories of others

When the relationship is still not so good

Even if you hear a dark story

"Stop being involved anymore".

of course

This kind of story

There are ways to make good use of it,

Little by little from now on

If you're trying to get along

Suddenly telling bragging stories or heavyweight dark stories

It is wise to stop.

Then next

It ’s a way to get to know yourself deeply,

My personality and what I like,

Rather than roughly telling what you dislike

It is to convey in detail.

for example

"I like animals"

Not

"I like dogs"

Anyway,

In the next conversation

"I like the place where dogs are doing"

"When I see a dog, I feel at ease."

What do you like about dogs?

I will tell you concretely based on my experience.

Then

The person who is me

It is naturally imaged by the other person's brain.

However,

What you have to be careful about here is

It's too detailed to convey.

If you add too long a description

Before the end of the story

Because the other party gets tired of listening

At the beginning

Be aware of about 60% of the full text

I think it's good to tell.

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So today

About "the benefits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply"

I've talked to you.

A little on the way

Some parts omit the explanation,

"What are you going to do at this time?"

I'm sure some of you may have questions.

Don't hesitate to do that

Please leave a message in the comments section.

This story today,

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