One reason why you shouldn't apologize before you get a complaint.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "one reason why you shouldn't apologize before you get a complaint."

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Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Are you the one who apologizes immediately when you do something wrong?

Or do you want to see how it goes and apologize if the other person seems to care?

This is not a story about which is correct and which is wrong, but for the time being, I think most people have been taught since they were little, "If you do something wrong, apologize first."

So, if you do something almost reflexively, I think there are many people who apologize immediately.

However, in fact, there are a certain number of people who care when they are apologized, and people who care about it and on the contrary make it difficult to meet face to face next time.

Probably there is a probability of about 1 to 20% around you.

So, the fact that you did the wrong thing itself is not a good thing, so I think you should apologize obediently, but you just did it and it became awkward and avoided.

Even though I was in normal contact until then.

Because of that event, after that, it becomes awkward and avoids the other party.

Then, for some reason, I will avoid it because it's awkward.

"I wonder why?" I'm curious, but I can't ask now.

The more time passes, the farther away we get from each other.

It's like a relationship between lovers, but human relationships are unexpectedly estranged like this.

Then what should I do? About that, it will be a little out of today's theme, so if I'll talk about it again next time, today's theme is "It's better to avoid apologizing before there are complaints", so the personality of the other party, especially something There are many people who care about it or use unreasonable things, so there are many people who become awkward later, so first of all, try to deal with the other person, and if you don't care, I think there is no problem with going through it as it is.

If there is a pretend that you care, don't hesitate to apologize.

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