Living together with meddling and indifference is the best.

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Well, today, I will talk about "living with meddling and indifference is the best" while brushing up my blog in the past.

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Everyone, do you know about "separation of tasks"?

If you know this, your life will be in pretty easy mode.

It's a word that comes out as soon as you google it, but I'll explain it here.

"Separation of tasks" is a language often used in the field of psychology, but in short, it is the first work to determine whether it is your own task or someone else's task.

If you can organize this assignment, you can clearly see the errands that you don't have to do.

Problems, errands, work, etc. that directly affect me are my tasks, so I have to take the initiative to work on this, but it doesn't affect me, to be a little more specific, it will be affected indirectly, but it will be directly affected. No problems, errands, work, etc. are not your own tasks, so there is no problem if you leave them alone until you have your own tasks.

(Do you understand from the explanation so far?

There are quite a few people who don't know whether it's their own task or someone else's task. There are quite a few around me, and on the contrary, this principle

Some people do it naturally without knowing the theory.

To describe the former in one word, it is Mr. meddling.

To describe the latter in one word, is it indifference?

I'll explain in a little more detail in order.

Mr. Meddling is a person who sticks his head in even though he hasn't been asked by other people's troubles, right?

In other words, "It has nothing to do with you!" It's about a person with a pattern of getting angry.

There are a lot of people who really misunderstand this, and it would be nice if you don't want to do it, but it makes you even more scooped up because you can solve it.

If you're going to do it, you have to take care of it until the end.

Then, next is indifference, but on the contrary, this person is a person who pretends not to know the issues and troubles as his own.

If you take it widely, even if it has something to do with you, you just think that it has nothing to do with you because your perspective is narrow, and you don't try to get involved.

That's why I'm not trying to work on a solution at all.

This kind of person is only irritated when viewed from the surroundings.

But actually, there are people like this.

Well, both of them are just a problem if they are too biased, but the most suitable personality with moderate meddling and indifference is the best.)

Hey! (Hey!

Don't you feel better if you think about a lot of things like this?

(However, if you think of various tasks as your own and become really distressed, please do the separation work of this task once.

This is the only thing that will definitely make your heart feel at ease.

It's a task not to corner yourself.

I strongly recommend that you do it before you break.)

At first, I think there is a sense of incongruity with this way of thinking.

It's okay!!︎

You'll get used to it eventually.

Whose task is this to be aware of at first?

I have to organize that, but eventually I'll be able to do it naturally.

In about 3 weeks, you will learn it without knowing it, so please try your best to do muscle training for those 3 weeks.

See you later✌️

(In the end, I ended up telling you the training method to make it a habit.

There is also a great theory called 21-day theory in psychology.

Of course, it is a scientifically proven theory, so the reliability is also perfect.

So, if there is anything else you want to make a habit of this, please try incorporating it.

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