It's less damaging to assume that you will be rejected than to assume that you will receive it.

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Well, today, the theme is a little long, but I'm going to talk about "it's less damage to assume that you will be rejected than to be accepted."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Don't you get quite nervous when you ask someone to do something?

Or is there anyone who is not good at asking people for a favor?

I think there are a lot of people who are not good at this.

Because the most common person who thinks so is that there are many reasons, such as "It's awkward when you are rejected" or the damage to your heart when you are told that you can't do it.

Well, you can understand.

Everyone is the cutest, so if you are rejected and shabby, it won't be a burden on your heart if you don't ask from the beginning.

But even so, if you undertake everything yourself, it will put a load on your mind and body, so if there is someone doing it, it's better to stop it immediately.

Well, let's go back to the story, but for those who are hesitant to take such mental damage, the content I'm going to talk about will be very important and the best way, so if there is someone who applies, please read it carefully. Sai.

Then, I'll explain it right away.

The point of this method is how to reduce the damage to your heart.

In other words, if you think about how to reduce the damage, it's relatively easy to find the answer, but the method I recommend is to "ask on the premise of being refused".

I have a few questions for everyone here.

Well, which of the following is less damage to the heart?

1 Make a request on the premise that you will be accepted.

2 Make a request on the premise that you will be rejected.

Well, which one is it?

The answer to this is 2, right?

Please imagine a little.

When the reply is OK or NG, which is more damaging to the heart?

Of course, it's time for NG, isn't it?

Because it's denied.

Then, when you make a request, what happens if you keep your mind denied from the beginning?

When you get an OK, you'll be very happy, and when you get an NG, don't you say, "Well, I knew it?"

In other words, even if NG comes out, there is not much damage to the heart.

Did you say that there is less shaking to the heart?

So, for those who are not good at asking people, it is the same meaning as insuring insurance, and if you keep your state of mind in a state of NG from yourself, you will not be shocked even when you really get NG.

Well, how was it? This story.

It does not mean that the damage to the mind will be zero at all, but if you can take it to a state as close to zero as possible and get used to it with this, you will have a heart that is almost unmoved.

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