The miserable end of waiting for those who doubt people first

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for those who doubt people first".

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Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

The first person to doubt people.

For example, "Mr. 〇〇, did you do that properly?" Or, "〇〇-kun, is that the right number?" Or, "〇〇-chan, did you do it properly until the end?" Well, well, everyone has their way of saying it, but isn't it terrible to suddenly suspect people from the beginning?

From a person's point of view, "Aren't you saying it as a confirmation?" Some people may think that, but the fact that this line comes out is a line that doesn't come out without doubt even in the corner of your head.

Have you all heard of it?

The line I mentioned earlier in the example.

In a lot of places, and it doesn't sound normal?

Is there anyone who feels free to use this?

You are there, aren't you?

If you feel free to use this, it might be better to reconsider.

It's just a hundred steps, it's still good if we can build a relationship of trust with each other, but there is no relationship of trust, let alone that we are suspicious of each other, or we don't deserve respect, we are hostile to each other, and that kind of good relationship It's a story that if you don't build a relationship, you will have the worst ending.

That's because from people who haven't built good relationships, "Did you do it properly?" If you say something, what kind of impression do you think the other person will have?

I'm sure, "What, are you doubting people!" What, I think it's normal to have a repulsive heart.

Because I don't trust you on a daily basis, and I'm hostile to you.

Once people see the bad points of others, they have the property that all of them look like bad people.

No matter what you do, you're a bad person, even if you talk normally, even if you eat normally, even if you take a break normally, everything seems to be doing something wrong.

Moreover, this nature seems to last for 2 years if it is long.

That's right, no matter how much you say a casual line without offense, if you look at it to the other person, it may be a word that sticks deeply in your heart.

Of course, in a bad way.

If that happens, the deep wounds on one side will not heal, and there will be a deep groove between each other, and it will be difficult for that groove to return to normal.

Well, that said, if this is one or two people, it might still be good.

I don't really care about it.

However, it's troublesome if 2 people become 4 people and 4 people become 16 people.

People have the nature of flirting and symonging with others right away, so many Japanese people in particular.

That's why there is a possibility that the number of people who are antipathy will increase exponentially.

In that way, as the number of people who are gradually holding backlash increases, the tragic end of the person who doubts first is another choice, isn't it?

That's right, it means that everyone will hate you.

I just don't say this, I think about it in my heart, so please be careful.

If you are disliked by a certain number of people, it will be quite difficult to be in the community, so if that happens, you will have to leave eventually.

So, if you have any idea about these things, I recommend that you fix that habit from now on, even if it's a little bit every day.

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