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Love is Blind in a different view.

When you say love is blind it always refer to the explanation "That when you love someone no matter what kind of person he or she is you will love him".

But when you love someone and that someone is doing something not good to you like cheating, and because you love him so much that you keep blinding yourself in order to still hold on to that love you are feeling for him. Here is the question "Is being blind to the things you don't want to see, is called love?"

For me, I am having a relationship to a person whom I love more than myself and my family and even everything in this world. Ever since I met that person, my world only revolves around him that I am willing to sacrifice even my career for him. But there are things that are happening that I keep myself blind for the sake of my love for him.

So can the saying that "Love is blind" means that keeping yourself blind for the things you want to ignore for the sake of your love even sometimes it hurts and sometimes that will make you think is this one sided love.

I am no expert in love and I don't know if anything I write here is correct to anyone else this is just only based on what I feel and my own opinion.

But in my case, I am loving a person with my whole heart, life and future but I don't know if he is the same with me. Is blinding my self to continue my love for that person is true love or just selfish love.

What if making your self blind to the things already in front of you is not love anymore. There is also a saying that "if you love someone, you should do anything for him to make him happy even he is happy not beside you." How would you know when to open your eyes in order for you to see that you need to let go.

I am still in the situation asking why do he need someone else if I am already here, am I not enough for him to still seek the company of others? Please give me a sign to know what is right and wrong. I want to see the light of answer to this darkness world of being blind to know what is the right thing to do.

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