【エイブラハムの知恵】愛を持つ子供を育てるには、どうすればいい 　聞き流し29　◆小さな神社

今回のエピソードは、子供に自由意識を育てたい親たち、あるいは自立した部下の教育について悩んでいる方にへ捧げます。今回の話の中には、エイブラハムと親子たちの会話があります、ごゆっくり聞いてください。
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対面ではないが、こうして出会えたことはご縁です。
見つけてくれてありがとう。
それでは、体と振動する音を耳で感じながら、エイブラハムの知恵を受け取りましょう。

I am very grateful to be here with you today. I've been listening to you for about six months. And I always have had a great faith in God and have always felt very blessed.
質問者ーここにこれることは光栄に思います。六ヶ月前からあなたの言葉を聞くようになりました。
神は小さい頃から信じています。

My mother has given me great faith. I have two little ones. And I'm pretty much their primary caregiver.
私には二人の子供がいます。ほぼ一人で育てています。
And I was very excited that I was going to get to come see I've known for a little over a week and my little girl she came home. But let me stop real quick. I will preface this I heard one recording where a man told you how his daughter got into a college that was very hard to get into, but that he had been teaching her about the vortex the law of attraction. And she used it.
その前に、あなたの教えを実践して、難関大学に合格したある女の子の話をしたいです。
And she got in. father didn't know how he's gonna pay for it, but all of a sudden gets a phone call. Some work he was waiting for girl gets the money, right?
どうやってお金を払うかと、家族が悩んでいたところ、父親に一本の電話がありました。仕事で支払いがあり、学費を払えるほどでした。
And as she says, This shit is amazing, you know? And I cried at that because I minor little and it was so moving to me, you know, how do I give it to them?
その物語を聞いたとき、感動しました。私も父親です。自分の子供に何を残したらいいか、考えました。

And I realized that it's for me being in alignment me being happy, and they will be happy. And
そこで気づきました。一番見せるべきなのは私自身が内なる自分に一致するところです。

because happiness demonstrates what happiness is fake happiness is a demonstration of alignment.
エイブラハムー幸せは内なる自分に同調して一致する時です。見せびらかすものでも、見せかけの幸せでもありません。

Absolutely. Happiness is a demonstration of alignment with who you really are and all that you want.
幸せは真にほしいものを受け入れ、その波動を味わう瞬間です。

Absolutely. And there, there's nothing more important to demonstrate absolute then that and how. And, and since you can't demonstrate a feeling Exactly. A smile is even a manifestation, isn't it?
愛する人に、幸せになるところを見せるより大事なことはありません。
微笑みも、幸せの実現ですよ。

Yes, the built in your voice is even a manifestation.
質問者ーそうですね、声も幸せの実現になりますよね。

But things working out and you're light and happy heart and you're clear minded thoughts and good timing of things.
エイブラハムー幸せの波動をキープすれば心は軽いし、考えもはっきりします。タイミングを受け入れやすいですね。

All of those are demonstrable examples of happiness, happiness is just a demonstrable. Something of vibration, isn't it. So the more you feel it, the more your grid fills in, the more your children witness your grid filling in and the more you help them to understand the association.
これはすべて、幸せの証拠ですね。幸せは波動の一致です。もっと幸せを感じればもっと自分自身に繋がります。親として子供に幸せになる方法を見せるほど大事な教育はありません。

In other words, this wasn't lucky. This was law of attractions response to the way I feel. The way I feel wasn't accidental. It was a deliberate focusing on the good things in life. In other words, it all works together, you demonstrate and teach and demonstrate and teach and demonstrate and teach and speak only from your alignment with your grid.
これは運ではありません。引き寄せの法則を通してあなたは自分の感じ方を具現化したのです。すべてのことに対して、私たちは自分の感じ方をコントロールすることができます。自分がマスターしてからはじめて人に状態を見せることができます。これは教えになります。
自分自身と一致する感覚を感じて、その状態を見せます。この繰り返しは何よりも大切です。

So I would like to tell you, and I agree, and thank you so much for that. So on Tuesday, my daughter came home, she's 10 years old, beautiful. And she comes home and she says Daddy, this little boy at school is telling other people that I like this other little boy and I don't like him. I don't like him.
質問者ーエイブラハム、ありがとう。
また私の娘のことに戻ります。彼女は10歳でとてもかわいらしい子供です。この前の火曜日、彼女が学校からかえったらこういいました「パパ、学校にはね、私がA君のことが好きだって言いふらす子がいるの。でも、全然A君のことは好きじゃないのよ。」

And I'm like, baby, you know what, don't even pay attention to that stuff. It's gonna happen to you all your life. Kids, unfortunately, they're cool, you know, but it's okay. Just love him. You know, love that the fact that you have a beautiful life, you have a beautiful home, your family loves you just, you know, concentrate on the good things.
私は答えました「大丈夫、そういうのを気にしないで。こんなことはこれからもたくさん経験するから。その子は、その子の事情があるし、あなたにはあなたを支えている家族もある。ほら、綺麗なお家もあるでしょう。良いことだけを考えればいいよ。」

She's like, But dad helped me. And I said, Well, what do you want me to do? You want me to go down there and beat him up? She's like, yeah. And I'm like, baby, I said, I'll tell you what I said if you want. And if you want, I will talk to your teacher. I will get his parents. I'll come down there. We'll get the two of you in a room. And we'll all talk about it.
そこで、彼女は不満げにいいました。「でも、パパ、助けてほしいの」
「何をしてほしい？その子を殴ってあげるのか？」
「うん」
「わかった、本当にしたいなら、先生にその子のことを話する。そして、彼の両親にも伝える。学校に行って三人で話をしましょう。」

 She's like, No, no, no, no, dad, no. And I'm like, Okay, well, then you need to face up to this, you need to do what I'm telling you. Don't worry about him. Don't focus on him Just be happy. So the next day, she goes down there and tells the boy, my dad's gonna come over to the school and talk to the teacher if you don't leave me alone. So I don't find this out until she comes home that afternoon with a bruised knee because the little boy tripped her. And I said, Well, you sought revenge. You said you were threatening the boy. And he sought revenge. What did you expect? So then I said, Well, you know, I told you just don't worry about him, whatever. So I said, what, what are his parents like, tell me about his parents? Oh, she said, Well, I found out that his dad left him and then his mom left him. And now he lives with his aunt and uncle. And I, I just bought started crying right there. And I was just like, no wonder, no wonder this little boy treats like that. As a baby. This is your first lesson and compassion with students with other people you will deal with in school, whatever, learning. I said, this little boy, he needs love. Don't look at a poor kid, you know, and this is something I've learned from you. Don't look at it. Don't look at his illness. Don't look at his sadness. Don't look at that. Recognize that him like every one of us needs love, probably more than most. And I said and just love him. So Friday, I picked her up. And I said, so how did it go today? And they have this thing where they get to take $1 or $2. And they get to get pickles and treats on Fridays or whatever. And she says, Well, I miss my chance to get my my treat. And he just happened to come up to me today. And he asked me for a quarter because he was short a quarter to get what he wanted. And I gave it to him. And he was really nice to me for the rest of the day. And I said wow, you know There you go, you gave him, he gave him love. And you cleared. And I said and go with that, you know, and I more than anything, I just wanted to thank you, thank you for coming through, to give us this knowledge. Because you're right, it's speeding up so fast, it's coming again and again and again. And all the connections with people that I keep coming in contact with. It's amazing. And I don't care about money, I don't care about cars, I don't care about houses, I just care about how I feel. And it's freaking amazing. Thank you, thank you.
「嫌だ！」彼女が言いました。
「だったら、私が言うようにしてね。このことはもう終わった。彼のことはもう考えなくていい。あなたがハッピーになることをしなさい。」
次の日に、彼女がその男の子に言いました「パパがいったの。またいじめたら先生に話すよ」って。
その日、家に帰った彼女は膝にけがをしました。あの子のいたずらだったようです。
「ほらね、あの子を脅したからこうなったじゃない。その子のことを先生に話すと脅したからひどい目にあったんだよ。その子のことほっとけばいいのに。まあいい。その子の両親はどんな人なの？」
「実は、お父さんもお母さんも彼を置いていったの。今はおばさんの家で暮らしているみたい。」
それを聞いたとき、泣きそうになりました。
なんでケガをさせたか、今、わかりました。
あの子は今、愛が必要だよ。その子には、思いやりが足りないんだ。
エイブラハム、これはあなたから学びました。こういう時は、その子の「足りない」など「かわいそうだ」など思ってはいけないのです。彼はまだ小さな子供で、みんなと同じように愛情が必要です。
これを娘に教えました。
そして金曜日に、娘を学校から迎えに行ったとき、彼女はいいました。「その子には買いたいお菓子があって、でもちょっとお金が足りないんだ。そして、私は彼にお金を渡したの。その後はずっと親切に接してくれたよ。」
「愛を、あげたんだね」
エイブラハム、本当にあなたに感謝します。こんな素晴らしい教えをみんなに伝えて。あなたは正しい。波動に集中すると物事は早く動きます。そして、人間関係にも波動の応用が利きます。
本当にありがとう。

It's a wonderful thing to get to play with the kids who are so close to remembering all of this, because they're not so far away, they have not developed their patterns of thought their opinions and beliefs. But still, they are responding to life a bit, aren't they. And so the most important thing that you were expressing, we're just going to put a little emphasis on it, because it's easier to keep doing it, when you are really clear about the important thing that you did do the emphasis that we want to apply here. And you'll have other opportunities to help your daughter feel this, too, is.
エイブラハム―子供は魂レベルの教えを思い出します。なぜなら、まだ様々な教えに色を染められていないからです。固定概念も形になっていないし、信仰や意見も固くはありません。しかし、少しずつ子供も自分なりに人生に反応しています。
だから、あなたがしたことはとても素晴らしいです。
本当に大切なことを、思い出せることが、教育です。

So often, it feels like I need to alter my behavior in order to affect the behavior that comes back. And certainly that's true.
質問者―実は、自分のリアクションを変えないと相手のリアクションを影響できないと感じています。引き寄せの法則によると、これは真実ですね。
And as she was finding her way, in all of this, she had to parlay it into something that she really didn't want, in order to activate what she really did want, you helped her through that in the discussions.
エイブラハムーあなたの娘が経験したのは、欲しくない現実です。何が起きているかを少しずつ理解していく中で、本当に欲しいものがはっきりわかるようになります。あなたは、彼女が早くこれを理解するのを手伝いました。

If you will take this conversation to the next level with her, of watching the grid fill in. so that she can make the conscious association between capturing the feeling of something, and then a cooperative component.
もし、さらに強くなってほしければ、会話を重ねて彼女が自分の気持ちを理解できるようにしてあげてください。
In other words, just the conversation that you had with her, softened her emotion, to a place of love and friendship that caused absolutely that grid to fill in with an opportunity for her.
すでに、その会話は彼女の気持ちを和らげて、復讐から愛と友情へと成長させてあげました。それで逆転するチャンスがめぐってきたのです。
It was a perfect opportunity for her it was something that he could ask of her that she could easily do. It was something that he could ask of her that she could easily do that she wanted to do.
それはちょうどお互いに接点を作る自然な出来事でした。
It was evidence to her for her grid feeling in. And if you can put it in the context of this is how you felt. And that's how the grid filled in. This is how you felt and that's how the grid filled in.
And then this is how you felt. And that's how the grid filled in. She'll have it forever and ever and ever.
もし彼女が体験した変化をわかりやすく説明してあげられればきっと理解は深まります。

She'll be just be moving through life, establishing vibrational alignment with her ever changing desires, and the universe will cooperate with her in such a way that you will count her and she will do is one of the most extraordinary deliberate creators ever.
この知恵を元に人生を体験していくと波動の使い方をマスターし、宇宙を味方にします。
あなたは、彼女が素晴らしい創造者になる手助けになります。

Very good.
質問者ーありがとう。