What is 90% worries for people?
Hello, everyone! How are you today? This is teacher Asuka.
Today, I’m going to talk about human relationships.
‘What is 90% worries for people?" What do you think it actually?
It is said that about 90% worries for people are “human relationships”.
‘Snoopy’, a famous comic character, once said, "we don't have time to worry about people who don't like us so much, because we've been busy with loving people who love me very much."
I am impressed about that comment. We need to concentrate on loving people who really love me so much because life is too short.
Do you know what percentage do people meet each other? If life is 80 years, it is said that we can meet people which are 30,000 for life, 3000 for same school or same workplace, 300 for close friends or acquaintances.
If the world population is about 7.6 billion in 2018, the percentage which we will meet close people is around one in 25 million.
That is lower than the percentage which people will win the first prize of lottery that is 700 million yen (which is one in 20 million)
Well, next, we are thinking about how to keep a relationship. I will show you several keys to continue for long.
First of all, be honest. Second, build trust.
Third, leave the past. Fourth, communicate.
Fifth, appreciate flaws. Sixth, become best friends.
Seventh, be there for one another. Eighth, talk about good and bad.
Nineth, make time for one another. Tenth, you won't always happy.
Eleventh, having arguments are normal.
Last but not least, Twelfth, love each other unconditionally.
From the above, I do hope you will find some solutions for your long-lasting relationships.
Thank you for being with me as always.
See you next time.
Teacher Asuka
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