The Nine Misunderstandings of [ Person Who Is A Shy At First ]
First of all, there premises about person, who is introverted, has different brain function from others.
They are totally different for dopamine sensitivity to person who is extroverted.
*Dopamine is about an intracerebral(inner brain) agents that make your brain be excited state, and then, gaining your motivation.
Person who is introverted, is seriously weak for that. For example, they will be defeated by intake of coffee instead of thinking that coffee makes them get excited. They just easily be lost from a stimulus from outside.
On the other hand, person who is extroverted, is strong enough to dopamine. The more they get it, the more they become active and getting excited.
It is because their brain dose not produce blood circulation than person who is introverted. They want dopamine than the introverted, so they need for stimulation.
So you can think that it’s no use for how hard you try to change your personality like introverted in the end.
Rather you should turn your face to other way for making better quality of life.
So from here, let’s talk about most of us misunderstands about “person who is shy at first”.
Misunderstanding 1: The Introverted dose not like conversations?
* Let’s say if introversive type has their attention to which they are curious or very interested in a topics, they will be like a hunter to get more information or knowledge for it. However, when they do not have such attention about any topics you mention, then they keep quiet unless they are necessary to speak of.
It’s absolutely ideal for being unsociable.
Misunderstanding 2: Is the Introverted self-conscious person?
* There is no relationship between “shy” and “introverted”. The introverted are not afraid of people, they just need for any reason to talk.
Misunderstanding 3: Is the Introverted arrogant?
* It is just matter of their weak point for starting a conversation or a light joke in between the conversations. That’s why they take up main subject instantly. You feel like suddenly getting tackled by them.
Misunderstanding 4: Does the introverted dislike people?
* They only need few enough friends. It means they have more distance between people they aren’t familiar but when they get close to l, they will be in deep with that person throughly. That’s who they are. So when they have a friend like that, it will be long long relationship with them.
Misunderstanding 5: Does the introverted dislike sociality?
* in a basis, whether you are the introverted or not, you like to talk to someone, having say that, they are unlikely different to the extroverted, the introverted gets easily tired with communication. It is because when they start conversation, as soon they will make an analysis about opponent’s outlook or data in their mind, in the end, they will make themselves tired easily from the first.
Misunderstanding 6: Does the introverted like to be alone?
* They seriously love to work on imagination. That makes you that they look like they are in a daze or hard for you to start a conversation with them. They need person who is alike with them to share their values. If not, they may be suffered or tormented by strong feelings of loneliness.
Misunderstanding 7: Is most of the introverted Wired’s?
* Let’s describe they are basically an individualism, meaning they are hardly difficult mingling with others. They always look for net things, do not care for famous and popularity, Ignoring those things, also walk on without any rules, look like they are wiredos in the end.
Misunderstanding 8: Is the introverted cold-hearted or unkind?
They make more attention their inner mind, concentrate to their mind and feels. It makes as if they were no interests or were arrogant to others because they are narrow-viewed, give others to feel they are incurious about anything.
Misunderstanding 9: Can be cured the introverted?
* Well, as described above, a brain function is totally different to others so you may think you don’t change it for being in secure. Even you can make it change little bit by some trainings but for me, it is useless for your energy to get it over so my suggestion is let’s concentrate to different ways that you can make that personality to your weapons. For example, you are good at making your mind into deep, shall we focus for that!
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