From MY Point of View(私の立場から見えること)
In today's fast-paced and competitive civilization, an increasing number of young people take on the job of becoming the primary income earner for their families. Although it is a respectable role, it has its own particular set of challenges. Young earners must carefully manage the dual responsibilities of fulfilling their familial obligations and living their lives according to their personal aspirations.
The struggle faced by many young providers like me is the burden of financial responsibilities. Our main objective is to be able to make ends meet, so we opt for working long hours rather than enjoying ourselves with friends. We also prefer saving money for emergencies rather than allocating it to items that will make us feel better after a hard day's work. As mundane as they sound, they hold great significance to those who would like to enjoy life in their twenties.
Breadwinners often find themselves preoccupied with unexpected situations, which can consume a significant amount of their time and energy. The thoughts of paying the bills and budgeting for daily food and other expenses are quite tough. Anxiety, burnout, and being overwhelmed are the battles we day to day face. As we face a lot of pressure, we struggle to balance work demands, family responsibilities, and personal desires.
Most peers confuse us as somebody who likes to disconnect and is ordinarily detached to the amusement that life has to offer. In reality, we prioritize other vital things. Moreover, young workers tend to lose their grip between having the time of their life and managing workloads. In addition to that, burning a candle at both ends may be too much to handle so breadwinners like me settle to give our 100% on work.
As a result of shouldering responsibilities and looking after others, breadwinners often develop a strong sense of self-reliance. This makes it difficult for them to seek assistance or express their own desires, as their mindset becomes accustomed to handling everything independently.
Luckily, amidst the hustle culture, there are few individuals who understand the importance of balance and encourage their peers to let loose and enjoy life outside of work. These compassionate people acknowledge the detrimental effects of relentlessly prioritizing work, as it can inevitably result in exhaustion, emotional depletion, and a negative impact on one's overall state of being. They encourage workaholics to take breaks, indulge in hobbies, and participate in activities that ignite a sense of utter bliss and contentment within them.
As an individual going through these challenges, I’m grateful to have a group of friends who provide significant support. The impact of having friends on our well-being cannot be underestimated. These good pals not only allow us to have fun and enjoy life but also offer us support when we feel overwhelmed. They provide companionship, making our lives more fulfilling. Additionally, they motivate us to step outside of our comfort zones and explore new opportunities.
I can vividly recall my time in senior high school when I was extremely timid and shy. I had a fear of socializing with unfamiliar people, fearing judgment and being labeled as strange. However, everything changed when one of my friends secretly enlisted me in a beauty pageant. I found myself in a nerve-wracking situation, I was emotionally unprepared but it was a blessing in disguise. It turned out to be an unforgettable experience as I discovered my capability to face and interact with the crowd, challenging my own fears and insecurities.
As you can see, throughout our journey in life, we frequently come face to face with various challenges and hurdles that may seem insurmountable, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to cope with the weight they impose upon us. Nonetheless, it is crucial to bear in mind that reaching out for support should never be perceived as a manifestation of weakness or inadequacy. On the contrary, it is absolutely acceptable and even commendable to humbly request assistance from others, enabling them to extend a helping hand and alleviate the burden we carry.
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